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  • Not the end, just the beginning.

      31 March 2017
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    Hello everyone.

    Today's the final day of our givealittle page being open for donations and I know I should be doing a final push for donations because yes we will need them and yes the budget is tight but I can't. I can't and soon I will tell you why.

    First an update on Carter.

    Our little champ has pushed through hours of therapy, me hassling him to do things that are difficult for him and has achieved the biggest goal we had set for his first year. He sat up by himself at his first birthday party (a week or so before actually) and I couldn't be prouder. Sitting is still a big part of his therapy goals as he now needs to learn to use his arms to support himself and move side to side while sitting. Everything that comes naturally and smoothly to others he has to learn bit by bit, move by move. We have a great team of therapists though so I know he will achieve anything.

    Carter has another surgery and an MRI scan of his brain coming up, both under general anesthetic in Waikato and another echocardiogram to check his heart prior to these. As well as continuing with regular visits with the pediatrician, cardiologist, dietician, speech therapist, physical therapists and homecare nurses. He greets them all with a cheeky smile and shyly snuggles into mum.

    We continue to fight with getting enough calories into him for growth and are still up all night because of his intake needs, but he has had no backwards weights and is making steady progress so we keep trucking. He currently still wears 6 month old clothes :).

    We would so love for you to meet him and see what a fantastic little guy he his.

    But why can't I ask for your money today?

    Because my heart is breaking. Breaking for another family affected by Noonan Syndrome and their time of great need is now. The Dowd family have two children with NS and tragically their youngest Isabella is nearing the end of her journey in this dimension. She has endured a life of hospitalizations, tubes, surgeries and pain but has experienced such an astounding, unconditional love from those around her. So please consider giving your final donation not to us and our goals and achievements but to the precious hopes and memories of wee Isabella. The link to their page will be in the top comment of my Facebook post or search 'Please help little Isabella Hope and her family' on givealittle.

    Thank you xx

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  • New year, new you...

      22 January 2017
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    Happy new year everyone! We trust you had a bit of down time and made the most of it.

    We really enjoyed hanging out as a family and really spending time together. We haven't really had any decent time throughout the year with Callum working hard and Carter and I springing from appointment to hospital stay and back and trying to nap in between times. So it was really nice to relax and let go of all the expectations placed on us by the Dr's etc for a few weeks... we were almost 'normal'!

    Now we're back into it with hospital appointments every week in January and Carter's therapist starting back up in Feb. That's ok though, we're hoping to kick the year off with a new mentality.

    With the hope that the worst of last year is over we're aiming to move forward with Carter's care and development, the focus being on his physical therapy and some challenging goals we have set.

    The intention is to tone down the level of stress involved in dealing with all the extra 'stuff' associated with Carter's care and accept this 'stuff' as normal.

    Thanks again so much to all our amazing supporters out there. All the best wishes to you for a positive, successful year!

    Hope to see you soon xx

    "The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are" - J P Morgan

    2017 Here we go......

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  • Merry Christmas x

      24 December 2016
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    So I just want to take a step out of the craziness of Christmas for 5 minutes because I still can't get my head around how generous you have all been.

    This year has been the roughest of rough for us... when I went into labour on the 11th of March it was the peak of excitement for us, like it would be for most people. We were about to welcome our precious first baby into the world and nothing can replace that feeling of excitement/anticipation! But our world got turned upside down less than a day later when Carter was rushed off to SCBU and the following days were a blur. I was still supposed to be resting from my cesarean when Carter and I were rushed to Starship and we've really not stopped since!

    This experience has been hugely challenging and completely different from what we were expecting of parenthood.

    But!! I guess it's lucky that this is all we know of parenthood with Carter being our first child.

    Carter is gorgeous, he has a beautiful smile and cheeky personality, and yes he may be 'behind' but he's still achieving milestones just at his own pace.

    So even though things haven't turned out how we had expected we would never wish we could change our lovely boy and we will always soldier on to ensure he has the best opportunities available to him.

    Thank you all so much for supporting us and enabling us to help Carter the best we can xx

    Merry Christmas to all and let's all hope for a better year in 2017 xx

    Come and meet Carter?

    Lots of love to you all,

    Sheri xxx

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  • There's no place like home

      26 November 2016
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    They let us out!

    Carter was so pleased and definitely knew we were going home... smiling and looking around in the car then off to sleep!

    We will be keeping a low profile and giving the wee fella time to recover at home now for a couple of weeks.

    Thanks for all your messages of support and these amazing donations!

    Keep in touch, questions are welcome, there's even a Q&A section on this page.

    Love love love you all xoxoxox

    P.s. this website has a mind of its own with the photos I upload, I swear they would not be sideways/upside-down if I had any control over them...

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  • A smile can fix everything

      24 November 2016
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    We finally have some smiles this afternoon and although things are clearly a bit sore we have just a bit of our cheeky boy back.

    We're out of HDU and on the ward.

    Very slowly getting some milk into Carter but always takes longer than average for his tummy to recover so just have to take it slow...

    Will be here another couple of days all going well.

    Look at his tapeless, tubeless face <3 them eyes, that smile xxxx

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  • Surgery Day

      23 November 2016
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    Carter's in surgery as I write this... it's terrifying...

    Carter was great this morning per usual although he was awake at ten to five! We wandered around the ward to distract him from wanting to feed and eventually he slept in the wrap. He smiled all the way through all the checks and as I carried him into the theatre, my god he's a great kid :)

    I've done just about all I can to not think about it...pumped, measured, stored breastmilk, cleaned and sterilized pumping equipment, packed and unpacked gear, looked out the window, looked around the ward....but I still forgot to brush my teeth somehow... hmmm not much longer to go so now I am just sitting and waiting...with fuzzy teeth...

    Sheri xx

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  • Shock!

      20 November 2016
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    Holy moly!!!

    We are so extremely overwhelmed by your response to the page! Here we were thinking we'd get a couple of tanks of gas or something but what we've received is just too much to even process!

    How will we ever thank you all!!?!?!

    Needless to say I've been a blubbering mess every time I've checked the page.

    Here's a cute pic of Carter to say thanks xx

    Much love to you all xxx

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