Our Mum has only been given weeks to live and needs cataract surgery to see us one last time before she leaves us - 4% vision

$3,655 of $13,000 goal
Given by 37 generous donors in 15 days

Our mum has been given weeks (19/7) to live and we would like to give her the chance to see her family. Needs cataract surgery urgently.

Auckland

Our mum has just been told (19/7/2018) that she has an aggressive cancer and that she only has weeks to live.

To make matters worse, Mum has cataracts in both eyes and she can no longer see. She is on the public wait list but it is now a race against time. Chemo has accelerated the issue and her vision has all but gone (4% vision). She can no longer see our faces, she just recognises us by shape and sound.

We would love to be able to raise enough money to just get one of her eyes done. That way, we can gift her the gift of sight and allow her to see us all ( family) during her last few weeks. I couldn’t think of anything more amazing than her being able to see us all as well as her grandchildren before she goes.

Mums dream holiday is to stay at Huka Lodge in Taupo. It’s really expensive and well beyond our means to be able to do this for her. If there were enough funds, then we would love to make her dream come true. That would be so amazing.

Mum was diagnosed with cancer last November. She went through Chemo like a champion, never complained, just got on with it. She was very frightened but knew she had to do it. Her treatment finished in March and a scan gave her the "all clear". It has been a shock to find out that the cancer has returned and has spread so aggressively in just a matter of months.

Thank you so so much for helping our Family out. We will be forever grateful.

Martin Betty's involvement (page creator)

We are her 3 children, and would love for mum to be able to actually see us all in her last few weeks. For her to be able to see the sun set, to watch the birds in the trees, to see the waves crashing on the beach.

Use of funds

The funds will be spent on cataract surgery and if sufficient funds are raised, we would like to fulfill mums dream holiday. Staying at Huka Lodge in Taupo. Mum has not been out of Auckland in 10-15 Years, this would truly be a dream come true for her.

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Mark, Cathy, Sarah and Jenna
Mark, Cathy, Sarah and Jenna on 29 Jul 2018
Thank you everyone, for all your generosity it is quite touching. We know this will make a massive difference to Mum / Grandma to be able to see her much-loved family, and friends. She will also get some independence to do the simple things too, like get around the house. make a cup of coffee, watch a bit of TV and cook. Mum will also get to enjoy the beautiful outside that we too often take for granted. Love you Mum!
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Lee, Donna, Emily and Cameron
Lee, Donna, Emily and Cameron on 27 Jul 2018
What a lovely idea. I know how seeing the Grandies helped Mum through the dark days. Love to all for an amazing woman
$50
Helen
Helen on 25 Jul 2018
For a super Mum who deserves to see her family.
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Isobel Pope
Isobel Pope on 24 Jul 2018
$10
Jay
Jay on 23 Jul 2018
Hope she gets her last wish, sending my thoughts to your family.
$15

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