Please help support the Howard family in giving Erin the best chance of remission & making as many special memories as they can together.
Macraes, Otago
On her 43rd birthday, Erin received shocking news that a recent lump removed from her hip was malignant melanoma & a terrible migraine, the result of the cancer spreading into 12 brain tumors, & elsewhere to her lungs & back.
She can no longer drive, or work. Surgery is not an option. Her current chemo drugs (dabrafenib & trametinib) have a 90% chance of shrinking her tumors but they are only expected to work for 3 months. They are not publicly funded & will cost at least $80,000. They will eventually stop working & the cancer will advance, so they hope to change to immunotherapy treatment (ipilimumab and nivolumab) to give her the best chance of survival. Should she respond (fingers crossed), the cost of this will be much more.
Tragedy has hit Erin before with her father, Constable Peter Umbers killed in the line of duty in the Maniototo in 1990, leaving her mother to raise her 2 daughters as a single parent. Watching her children adjust to her diagnosis, having had her own experience of dealing with the sudden loss of her father, is extremely difficult for Erin. Her focus is now on extending her precious time with her family, & creating a legacy by realising her dream of planting her own propagated native trees, on their farm for all to enjoy.
The offer of support received really does mean the world to Erin and her family. “My goal is to stay with them as long as possible & to become one of those people who were diagnosed and never quite died.”
Close friend.
The money will be spent on assisting with treatment costs (ipilimumab and nivolumab), allowing Erin to spend some special moments with her family and easing just some of the financial burdens such a tragic time can bring to a family.
Memorial for Erin 10 January 2025
Erin passed away on the morning of the 8th of January at the hospice. She is now at peace and free of pain. Her family once again wish to convey their gratitude for all the support over the last three months. It's been truly appreciated.
A Memorial service to celebrate Erin's life will be held in Hope and Sons Chapel, 523 Andersons Bay Road, at 2:00pm, on Wednesday, January 15.
Further details, including the link for the live stream can be found here https://hopeandsons.co.nz/funeral/howarderinmarie-1-FIN53015231/
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