We need YOU! Cancer is messing with our MUCH LOVED DESRAE

$73,815 of $80,000 goal
Given by 216 generous donors in around 12 months

Seeking your support to fund her treatment for ovarian cancer!

Wellington

Here is Desrae's story in her own words:

"I knew something was afoot when I didn’t feel like a tipple while at a friend’s BBQ over the Labour Day long weekend (Oct 2016) and my stomach started becoming bloated.

Following an ultrasound and further testing, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer stage 3C. In December, I started nine rounds of chemotherapy (Paclitaxel and Carboplatin) with “interval debulking surgery”, in between.

Think - nuke, shrink, remove as much of the tumour as possible, then nuke again to be sure you get as much of the bugger as you can!!!

To support my healing, I took bold steps as I did not want this thing to take over the essential me. So I overhauled my life and diet to saint-like qualities- no sugar, alcohol or coffee and eating predominantly organic, plant-based food, regular exercise and lots of sleep.

By June 2017, I’d earned my chemo stripes as it were. All of the people who live with cancer know what I am talking about, sadly the stripes we all wish we didn't have. I welcomed a break from it all knowing that the tumour had responded well to treatment and had reduced considerably. I celebrated by completing the Kāpiti Women’s Triathlon…..I know get me!, but I wanted to celebrate living.

From then on my life has been one of being monitored regularly by the medical profession, but in June 2018 my cancer recurred. Soon after, I started another six rounds of chemotherapy (Gemcitabine and Carboplatin this time, for a bit of variety!). Last month, I was told that the chemotherapy hadn’t worked and that my last funded option for treatment is taking Etoposide (tablet form of chemotherapy) and intravenous Paclitaxel.

SO, as you can all imagine I am gutted but I am a fighter with a strong conviction that my health situation does not fit the “one size fits all” standard protocol offered by our health system.

I would appreciate some financial support to pay for my monthly treatments. As my illness is deemed “incurable” by the system, I would like to complement my conventional treatment, which I have to pay for, with metabolic and natural therapies."

Glenda Tuaine's involvement (page creator)

Desrae is one of my closest friends, she is like a sister me and I am committed to helping her Chris and Nikaia, raise money for her treatments against that dam Cancer!

Use of funds

The Funds will go towards prescribed drugs, supplements, and a specialised blood test which screens the efficacy of different chemotherapy agents and natural substances (so I can get the right sort), as well as intravenous vitamin C and ozone therapies.

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Latest update

Our Des is an Angel now  3 March 2021

It is with deep sadness that I write this update. Our beautiful Des left us this morning to be free from the pain of Cancer. We celebrate all that Des gave us, her vibrancy, her humor, her beauty and her love.

Des

As your breathe shallows to a pause

Life stalls and becomes no more

What we were, lives

The air is charged with you now

The sun shines when in my memory you are

Life is the sum of us

And yours was loved

Thank you so so much to you all for supporting Des, Chris and Nikaia.

God Bless you all and Rest In Love Desrae Ngatai - Wahinetoa

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Latest donations

Stephanie
Stephanie on 22 May 2020
with all our love Jeremy, Steph, Bonny and Bill
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Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 17 May 2020
$1,000
Wedge-Judd Family
Wedge-Judd Family on 04 May 2020
Sending our love to you Desrae and your family. Becca, Jason and Molly
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Dianne Jamieson
Dianne Jamieson on 03 May 2020
Sending all my Love, strength and positive pink bubbles to you Desrae. also to Chris & your lovely daughter. XXX
$80
Stephanie
Stephanie on 02 May 2020
We love you Des, Chris and Nikaia x
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This campaign started on 29 May 2019 and ended on 22 May 2020.