A page to raise funds to support the Ngāpō family pay for ongoing medical costs. Every little bit helps !
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Kia Ora Everyone -
Asking for financial help feels like a difficult and vulnerable thing to do but here I am humbly asking for your help . Please x
I have been diagnosed with grade 3 stage 3 Inflammatory Triple Positive Breast Cancer. This type of cancer is considered very aggressive and fast growing especially because of my age.
After some major inflammatory progression I became inoperable last year so did 3 months of chemotherapy and was then able to have a bilateral mastectomy and lymph node removal. Unfortunately there was still residual cancer in my breast tissue and lymph nodes so I then went on to have a month of radiation treatment and am now half way through 42 weeks of another chemotherapy cycle.
I am combining both allopathic and traditional approaches and doing everything I can to be here to see my son grow up.
We moved out of our longterm rental in June last year and are full time housesitting so that we can afford to pay the medical bills but are still struggling to make ends meet.
We've moved 16 times in the last 13 months. Moving so much while managing treatment is really hard but we wanted to do everything we can before asking others for help.
I have learnt so much on this journey and have spent many hours researching and I know that the integrated treatment I am doing is really making a difference - unfortunately it is all very expensive here in NZ.
We would be so grateful for any support at all you may be able to offer. Every little bit makes a difference.
Genetic Testing and CTC testing.
MRI Brain Scan
Mistletoe, Ozone, and Vitamin C Therapy.
Rehab Treatments
Dr's Bills and ongoing unfunded prescription costs and supplements
Lymphatic Specialist appointments
The Ups and Downs of life 19 July 2025
Mm another long time between updates.. I think I get discouraged by the short word limit! .. I regret not writing when I've been in moments of deeper inspiration as I am now in a moment of exhaustion and overwhelm.
We've moved 16 times in the last 13 months and I have to be honest that it is feeling like a lot to manage on top of full time treatment and integrative protocols. I must remember that winter has historically never been easy for me but I've always managed to find my way out of the darker times eventually...
One breath after another, one step after another, one moment after another...
When we are in the most challenging times of our life it truly is the little things that matter most.
I'm cherishing the scent of the Daphne that is in full bloom by our door right now, the sight of the one hundred year old Totara outside our window, and keeping warm by getting to bed early and snuggling up and reading with my son.
I'm half way through my current treatment now .. I've had to pull back on a lot of the supportive therapies I was doing due to financial constraints and am feeling the effects of this but I'm still holding a vision of ease and abundance flowing our way...and I am also leaning in to all the ancient wisdom I have gathered over my life time that is free and available to me always such as Karakia, Breath , Movement, and Gratitude.
I'm attaching a video from early June - finally figuring out how to do some of this technical stuff ! ( hopefully it works)
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