A page to raise funds to support the Ngāpō family pay for ongoing medical costs. Every little bit helps !
Nationwide
Kia Ora Everyone -
Asking for financial help feels like a difficult and vulnerable thing to do - but life has thrown us a curve ball and here I am - asking for your help please xx
I have been diagnosed with grade 3 stage 3 Triple Positive Breast Cancer. This type of cancer is considered very aggressive and fast growing especially because of my age.
Since the original diagnosis I have had some major progression through my lymph nodes which caused me to become inoperable. I have just completed three months of chemotherapy and immunotherapy and am now operable so will be undergoing a bilateral mastectomy on November 29th 2024.
This surgery is my best shot at longer survival but the months following it are a critical window of time in which to prevent further spread.
I am combining both allopathic and traditional approaches and doing everything I can to be here to see our son grow up.
We moved out of our longterm rental in June and are full time housesitting so that we can afford to pay the medical bills but we are still struggling to make ends meet due to all the costs involved in this journey.
The options available to me after this surgery through the hospital system are considered "palliative" but I feel full of hope that there are still MANY things I can do! I have learnt so much on this journey and have spent many hours researching - unfortunately a lot of options are out of our reach financially.
Any support you are able to offer would be humbly and gratefully received.
Genetic Testing and CTC testing.
MRI Brain Scan
Mistletoe, Ozone, and Vitamin C Therapy.
Rehab Treatments
Dr's Bills and ongoing unfunded prescription costs and supplements
Lymphatic Specialist appointments
SURGERY RESULTS 17 December 2024
I finally got back in the water on Saturday.
It was a relief after a really big week moving house, and then travelling to post op appointments every day.
My range of motion is really limited on my left side and there was a split second where I realised I couldn't swim and could drown! But luckily calm prevailed and I went on to realise I could still side stroke on my left side .
Recovery is a big process of acceptance for what is .
Also processing results from surgery that revealed despite three months of neo-adjvunct treatment there was still cancer in five out of the six lymph nodes they removed and cancer scattered throughout my left breast.
I'm awaiting an appointment with my oncologist mid Jan to explore "palliative" drug options .
I do not let medical terms define me and I am open to a miracle.
I am also making the most of every day .
I need to keep raising funds for DNA testing , Rehab, alternative therapies, and unfunded drugs and scans. Just the DNA test itself will cost close to 10 000 dollars .
If any of you have time to write a little something and share this page to help get it out there I would be very grateful . Every dollar truly makes a difference !
Wishing you all a beautiful day and a peaceful moment in the sun xxxxxxx
Thank you Auntie Bree!!
Thank you so much Popsicle!!
Thank you kind person!
Thank you Lindsey!
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