cancer sucks! please help me help my family

Hi, I'm Kyle, 42 year old husband of an amazing wife, father of three children 21, 20, & 3yrs all boys & stepfather of 4.

Three years ago I was diagnosed with bowel cancer which didn't seem so bad, there was radiotherapy and chemo I done, which led to me losing my job and income due to excess time off work completing the treatment & recovery from the operation (ultra low anterior resection). I found a new job after a few months and it was looking great for the future but then came the yearly ct scan. Although the bowel cancer was removed successfully it had spread to my lungs and liver and is terminal (unresectable). 6 months on I've had to leave that job due to pain and fatigue, move from our house which was provided and now renting a house that's too small for us and paying dearly for it.

I receive the supported living allowance from WINZ but it doesn't go very far and I haven't any savings left. I worry about the price of my funeral, the financial burden it will have on an already struggling family, and request sincerely any small donation to help me get it sorted before it's time. Any excess of what it costs will be used trying to make some happy times/memories for myself and my children and wife,especially Nero, my 3 year old son. Appreciate anyone who reads this far, I know its much the same story as some others, but it's mine, and it's been very hard to share.

thanks, kyle