Sending TJ off with Love ❤️

$14,650 of $20,000 goal
Given by 241 generous donors in 4 weeks

Help ease the financial pressure during an incredibly difficult time.

Glenfield, Auckland

It is with deep sadness that we announce the sudden passing of our cherished son, brother and friend - Troy-Jacob (TJ) Kahaki.

TJ was enjoying an evening with work friends on 5 November 2025 and sadly suffered a medical event.

We have started this page to help ease the financial burden and to give TJ the most amazing send off that he deserves.

Any Koha received will be deeply appreciated.

Thank you all for your love and support during this incredibly difficult time. ❤️

Melissa Irvine's involvement (page creator)

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Use of funds

Funds will be used to help Donna pay for all costs associated with TJs Tangi and go towards living costs to allow time off to grieve.

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💙 Heartfelt Thanks 💙  24 November 2025

I want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you who donated. Your generosity has enabled me to cover 70% of the funeral costs, easing what could have been an overwhelming financial burden.

In the midst of grief, the thought of managing such expenses was daunting. Because of your kindness, I’ve been able to focus more on healing and supporting my younger son, rather than being consumed by financial stress.

Every donation has been a gift of compassion and support. I am truly humbled by the care shown, and I will never forget the difference you have made during this difficult time.

Thank you for standing beside me. Donna 💙

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Latest donations

Guest Donor
Guest Donor 3 days ago
I pray for healing, blessing and the true peace of Christmas on your family
$50
Jen
Jen 4 days ago
R.I.P. gentle giant TJ…thank you for the aroha you showed our disabled people. They will miss you! Bless you Donna and your other son xxxx
$25
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 19 Nov 2025
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Jac Johnson
Jac Johnson on 18 Nov 2025
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Guest Donor on 18 Nov 2025
$15

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This campaign started on 6 Nov 2025 and ends on 6 Feb 2026.