SHEA needs surgery to remove his brain tumour and save his life!

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The use of these funds is to enable Shea to have life saving surgery to remove his brain tumour and for his ongoing care. Should we not raise enough then to be used for his ongoing care.

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Shea has just turned 24 and needs to have his brain tumour gone. Only Charlie Teo can operate to save him.

I was visiting the cemetery in Christchurch one day. I came across a lady sitting next to a headstone. I asked if she was ok and she sadly said "This is my son'' there was a photo of a young man on the headstone. I asked how he had died and she said 'suicide. My heart sank as it wasn't that long ago that my son Shea had looked me in the eye crying and begged me to help him die. At that time if i had had a pill I may have even helped him. His tears cut me in half.

The lady's husband arrived and I explained to them that i live in terror every day for my husband and son who both have terminal illnesses.

My son had been told by one neurologist that he thought his tumour might be benign but then this all changed when a 2nd MRI and second neurologist said Astrocytoma (slow growing cancer) . It was agreed by each that it was unable to be operated on as it was in a dangerous place.

Since the diagnosis, Shea suffers from severe mental illness, depression, anxiety and social anxiety and never leaves the house unless his brother Christian talks him into going for a drive. His brother has been by his side throughout.

The father at the cemetery told me that the day his son died he had been talking to him on the phone and had no idea what his son had planned and how they now live with the anguish of wishing they had done something. He told me if i didn't do everything i could to save my son then i would never forgive myself. He said it was too late for them but maybe not for my son. He had heard of a man in Australia called Charlie Teo and that i should try and make contact.

I believe that God sent me to the cemetery that day. I had no reason to go there but came away knowing that the man was right.

I researched and wrote to Charlie Teo who happens to be classed as the best neurosurgeon in the world and is based in Sydney. I sent a letter and MRI results to him by mail on a Sunday and by the following Wednesday received a call to say that my son could be successfully operated on without complication or return of the tumour.

PROBLEM is that this surgery is done in the private sector and at minimum would cost $120,000

Christian his brother has a new baby and wife but he has always been by his brother's side. Without him Shea would certainly not be here. Every day he has Christian trying to reassure him that 'God won't fail him’.

PLEASE help me save my son

Everybody except for Charlie Teo has turned him away. I can’t help my husband but I can save my son’s life but desperately need your help.

Trish Vivian's involvement (page creator)

I am a wife and mother of a husband and son both diagnosed with terminal illnesses. We can however save our son!

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The use of these funds is to enable Shea to have life saving surgery to remove his brain tumour and for his ongoing care. Should we not raise enough then to be used for his ongoing care.

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Latest update

Shea Vivian  30 October 2021

Thankyou to all who have supported Shea. Although the idea of needing to travel to Sydney for surgery from Charlie Teo was an only choice. A new neurologist at Christchurch Hospital with the saintly name of Simon John said he would operate on Shea if necessary. We have had our prayers answered. We will put the funds to Shea to use on his medical remedies he buys unless anyone wishes a refund because Charlie is now not our only option. Please email wecaresecurity@gmail.com if you would like a refund. This page is going to be closed on Monday. God bless you and I do pray none of you ever have the years of torment that we have. Shea seldom leaves the house due to anxiety so I pray knowing there is hope things will be happier in our house 🙏🏻💙

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Anon Donor
Anon Donor on 02 Aug 2021
Kia Kaha & God bless.
$20
Trish Vivian

Thank you so much We had given up on Give A Little as just couldn't get it shared so you have set us on a new beginning of hope that dwindled. So much more keen now to get it going Sincerely thank you for jogging us on God bless you.

Trish Vivian
Stacey
Stacey on 08 Feb 2021
Always thinking of you all ♥ ♥ ♥
$100
Trish Vivian

After 6 months of believing all hope was gone you have given us such encouragement never to give up Bless you so much for the happy tears in my eyes ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Trish Vivian
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Guest Donor on 01 Sep 2020
Romans 5:4–5 "And endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us." 🙏🏼💛
$50
Trish Vivian

Thankyou so much. You’re words were so much appreciated and truly needed. I so often feel like giving up and then a message so powerful arrives. Thankyou for you’re beautiful donation and the encouragement sent by God through you 😇🙏🏻

Trish Vivian
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Guest Donor on 04 Jul 2020
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Trish Vivian

Thank you so much. I keep thinking we’ll never get there but then there is someone like you So many thanks 😇

Trish Vivian
Deb
Deb on 27 Jun 2020
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Trish Vivian

My sincere apologies I never thanked you earlier. But thank you for your beautiful donation which only helps us get closer and closer 😀😀😀

Trish Vivian

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