Help Caro live and beat stage 4 cancer 💜

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Given by 516 generous donors in around 6 months

Caroline (39yrs) mother of 2 furbabies, Stage 4, advanced - Hodgkins Lymphoma Cancer, help her BEAT cancer and live!

Wellington

Caro's Story, by Caro.

I had a dream, but this was not it!

Struggling to shake off what I thought was just the common flu, I decided to head to the doctors and get it looked at.

A few consultations later, at only 39yrs old I was diagnosed with a rare blood cancer, Hodgkins Lymphoma, stage 4 advanced.

Devastated, in shock and lost! Having seen the PET Scan of my whole body riddled with Cancer, left my little family and I lost for words but also, scared of what was up ahead.

It's been two months since being diagnosed and I am currently undergoing ABVD chemotherapy.

After the first hit of chemotherapy, I ended up in hospital for a week! My body reacted and everything became inflamed. I had my parents come to stay, my fiance by my side constantly and before the end of the week, I had zero sick leave and a few days of annual leave left, and I only just started! This is not what I had planned!

Before chemo, my fiance and I had planned to be working through this and taking the odd sick leave and annual leave here and there, but after the 2nd hit of chemo it's now becoming more realistic that my body is struggling to keep up and I’m not going to be able to work for very much longer. I'm looking at 6-8 mths of Chemotheraphy.

Living with this is not easy and nothing in life prepares you for this trauma.

My loss of wages of not being able to work, puts a financial strain to my journey something we were not prepared for.

I've lost my independence to look after my family and now we live off my fiance's source of income.

Thank you for your generosity and support!! Every little bit will go a long way.

Nastajia Bourke's involvement (page creator)

I am caroline's life partner, fiance.

Use of funds

Funds will be used to pay the mortgage, travel to and from treatment, hospital visits, , help pay for family to visit and support us throughout the journey. Both of our families do not live in Wellington.

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Latest update

Remission 🙌🏻  4 March 2021

Hi 🙋🏽‍♀️ how’s it all going?

Sorry haven’t been in touch for a while, life has its ways of throwing curveballs here and there!

Quick update, Caroline has finally received the “remission” status after two challenging biopsies and being admitted to hospital after having an adverse reaction to the last biopsy 3nights in hospital 🙃

Apart from that, we have started a brand new chapter of just living life to the utmost fullest🌸

Thank you for being supportive throughout this journey with us, lots of love ❤️ Nastajia & Caroline.

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Latest donations

Lou
Lou on 20 May 2020
All the best. Donating in memory of my daughter who lost her battle last year, she was diagnosed at age 39 like you. Take care.x
$30
Sarah
Sarah on 19 May 2020
With love and support xox
$50
Helen
Helen on 24 Apr 2020
So glad Caro is finished with the months of chemo. Sending much love to you both. I didn't see there was a fundraiser earlier or would have contributed sooner. I saw it on her sister's page linked to the latest FB post.
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Graham
Graham on 13 Apr 2020
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Piotr Myszkowski
Piotr Myszkowski on 08 Apr 2020
I believe that your father is a good man, so I'm truly honoured to help with his request. .... I'm sorry about your misfortune, but it can turn around for the better, and I really hope it does. Cheers
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This campaign started on 8 Dec 2019 and ended on 5 Jun 2020.