Top Surgery for my Dearest Brother, Carlos <3

$8,632 donated
Given by 99 generous donors in around 9 months

A fund set up for my brother Carlos, who requires top surgery

Auckland

Kia ora! I’m Ruby and I am setting up this give a little page on behalf of my favourite person in the world, my brother Carlos!

Carlos started his transition about 5 years ago, and it has been an absolute blessing and inspiration to see him find comfort in himself and grow into the incredible young man he is today.

The past five years for him have been filled with doctors, psychology, therapy appointments to which Carlos has mostly funded all himself and has made no fuss.

Unfortunately, where we find ourselves today is Carlos has been denied life changing top surgery through the public health system - a decision based on the under-resourcing of plastic surgeons in NZ and having to prioritise those with a greater surgical need. Although we understand this decision and fully support Te Whatu Ora (NZ Health) this had heavily impacted Carlos and set him back on his journey.

The total cost of this surgery $15,675 NZD (£6,983)

Cost breakdown:

Consult - $275

Surgeons fee - $9000

Anaesthetist - $3200

Hospital fees -$3200

The recovery period is 6-8 weeks.

Carlos has the opportunity to live authentically, and receive a surgery that will enhance his life immeasurably. To all of us who have had the privilege of being born in our “correct” bodies, I implore you to reach within your hearts and empathise.

If you can kindly donate any amount which would not put you out, I will be forever grateful to you. ❤️❤️❤️

Ruby Taurau's involvement (page creator)

My little brother

Use of funds

The funds will be spent on the surgery and post care

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Latest update

We did it!  18 February 2026

Hi everyone, an update - at the end of July I was contacted by the north shore plastic surgery team and offered a consult for top surgery, on the 26th of August I had Top surgery I have since fully recovered with the healing process going very smoothly I was lucky enough to be able to get the surgery funded thru the public health system. Please get in contact with myself or Ruby if you wish to get back any money you have donated, otherwise all donated funds with go towards my future surgeries and recovery.

Thank you all so much for your love and support for myself and my journey to become my most authentic self, I am in such a happy place in life and you have all truly helped me get to this point. A big thank you to my family and my beautiful sister Ruby who set this page up

Thank you everyone!

-Carlos

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Latest donations

Matthew
Matthew on 29 Jul 2025
Private
Ruby Taurau

Thank you Matthew! -Carlos

Ruby Taurau
Julian & Susannah
Julian & Susannah on 10 Jun 2025
Good luck Carl!
$100
Ruby Taurau

Thank you both Julian and Susannah! -Carl

Ruby Taurau
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 31 May 2025
$25
Ruby Taurau

Thank you!-Carlos

Ruby Taurau
Daisy
Daisy on 26 May 2025
$25
Ruby Taurau

Thank you Daisy!-Carlos

Ruby Taurau
Alana and Fraser ❤️
Alana and Fraser ❤️ on 24 May 2025
$100
Ruby Taurau

Thank you to you both Alana and Fraser!!-Carlos

Ruby Taurau

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This campaign started on 9 May 2025 and ended on 18 Feb 2026.