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A Life Lived Now

  • Round 7, no regrowth, and everything good in between!

      3 September 2026
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    I keep sitting down to write these updates and feeling the same thing every time: overwhelmed, in the best way, by how many of you are still cheering me on. Thank you for the donations, messages, and shares-it hasn't gone unnoticed or un-felt.

    Where things are at: I start round 7 of chemo next week-over halfway there! I've also had two check-up MRIs (three-monthly, to monitor my brain), both showing no regrowth — the best news I could ask for. Day-to-day still has its ups and downs, as chemo leaves me jaded and fatigued, but I'm taking it one round at a time and making the most of the good days.

    Something I haven't shared much: as a result of treatment, I'm unable to drive for at least another year. Between specialist appointments and MRIs, that's a lot of travel-and a portion of what's been contributed goes straight toward that, relieving so much pressure for Brendon and me. It's also covered classes and courses that help me feel more like myself again.

    On the joyful side-we had the most beautiful time in the Catlins, thanks to a gorgeous local family who loaned us their holiday home. Walking tracks, waterfalls, and evenings by the fire-nothing beats it! We also visited a wig provider in Christchurch and I found one I love-it's done wonders for my confidence.

    Next month, we're heading to Wellington for a week-catching up with friends, Te Papa, and Wētā Workshops. We can't wait!

    Thank you again for walking this with me. I feel so lucky to have all of you in my corner. 🤍

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  • A little update + all the gratitude

      12 May 2026
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    Firstly, I want to thank all of the special people who have contributed to my GiveaLittle from the bottom of my heart for all of your support and awhi. It’s not just the donations - every share, message, and kind word has been so overwhelming and heartening.

    Every donation is a reminder that the people in my life are some of the most extraordinary humans on this planet. You're not just giving me money — you're giving me things to look forward to. And right now, that means more than I can possibly put into words ♥️

    I promise I will make every single thing on that list count. I'm going to do them loudly and joyfully and I am going to think of every one of you when I do. 🎉

    Here's where things are at currently for me:

    I am currently taking my third round of oral chemo out of 12, meaning if my body plays ball, I should wrap up sometime around late January!

    We did have a bit of a hitch along the way. My platelet levels dropped low enough that when a cyst burst on my ovary, I couldn't clot properly, and I ended up in hospital with internal bleeding. I needed two blood transfusions and a platelet transfusion to get back on track - which was a lot, but I'm through it 😅 Here's hoping that was a one-time adventure.

    Thank you again, to everyone, truly. I feel so held by all of you. 🤍

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