Craig is home
1 July 2016I usually visit Craig on a weekly basis - and each week I leave excited that Craig has mastered a new skill. It is amazing how you take for granted the small things we do on a regular basis - like standing, walking and dressing yourself, and how difficult life is when you can’t even do the most basic things, like sit yourself up in bed. You really start to appreciate the journey those who suffer head injuries go through - you also start to appreciate the stress and pressure placed on caregivers as their lives are also significantly affected. It is definitely a difficult journey for everyone. When Craig first arrived at ISIS he needed someone monitoring him constantly - he had alarms put on his bed so that the staff would know if he was trying to get out of his bed - he simply didn’t have the co-ordination or the strength to safely do this on his own. But he always had the determination. It is this determination that has seen Craig gradually improve each week. I remember in the early part of his stay at ISIS as he watched longingly at a patient who walked past his room - I told him that that would be him one day - but he didn’t seem convinced he would make it that far. Within a few weeks Craig was mobile - albeit with a walking frame. Within a month the frame had gone and he was able to get himself in and out of bed. Within a second month he was walking around ISIS talking and smiling at people. It has been wonderful watching Craig improve - and he will be the first to admit that he wouldn’t have achieved all he has without the wonderful support and love from his wife Stacey. Craig's near death experience has certainly made him very grateful of the wonderful people he has in his life, and he has been humbled by the support from his family, friends and all those who have been involved with his recovery. Craig’s short term memory has also improved significantly - and there is genuine happiness in his face. I’ve seen Craig a number of times over the last week, and each visit the conversations get more detailed, more humorous and his witty cheeky personality is returning. Craig has improved enough that he was discharged from ISIS yesterday - and without a doubt I am sure his entire family are excited to have him back in their family home. But there is a still a lot of rehabilitation ahead, and there are still many basic things that need to be re-learnt, and while life will continue to significantly challenge the Hickford family, I know they are all happy they finally have their husband and dad back home where he belongs. While there is a still a long road ahead for you Craig - you are most definitely up for the journey. All the best my friend - your progress constantly amazes me and I think you are an inspiration. Keep fighting!