Raising funds in Siobhan’s memory to support young families through grief and loss.
Papamoa Beach, Papamoa
After losing my wife, Siobhan, our lives changed forever. She was an incredible wife, mum, daughter, sister and friend, and she brought so much love, kindness and laughter to everyone around her.
Over the past few months, I have seen first-hand how hard it is for young families dealing with the loss of a parent or child. There is support out there, but when you are grieving, it can be difficult to know where to start or even what help you need.
Siobhan was a passionate midwife who cared deeply for women, babies, and families she supported throughout pregnancy, birth and postnatal care. We want to try and turn this heartbreaking experience into something positive by helping other families who find themselves facing the same unimaginable loss.
Any donations received will go towards supporting young families through grief, whether that is helping with practical costs, counselling, memory-making, time away together, or connecting families with the right support when they need it most.
Thank you for all the love, support and kindness shown to our family. Keeping Siobhan’s name alive by helping others feels like a small way to honour the amazing person she was.
Siobhan is my wife and the mother of our two children.
All funds raised will go towards setting up a charitable trust to support young families deal with a loss of a child or parent. If a charitable trust cannot be set up, all funds raised will be donated to an existing charity.
Thank you 26 May 2026
Firstly, thank you so much to everyone who has donated, shared the page, sent messages, and reached out with kind words and personal stories. The support for Siobhan’s page has honestly been overwhelming, and me and the boys are incredibly grateful.
I also wanted to give a small update on the trust. Over the coming weeks we will begin formally setting this up, with the aim of helping families going through trauma, grief, and incredibly difficult times.
Please continue to share the page and link with friends, family, and contacts. While the fund is building momentum, there is still a long way to go to get it to a place where we can make a real difference and help others in Siobhan’s memory.
Thank you again for all the support. It truly means a lot.
Tony
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