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Fleur Gray's Fight For Life

  • New Treatment Cycle Underway

      27 February 2023

    Hi everyone,

    Our hearts go out to all those who have recently been affected by the devastating weather events that have hit the North Island. Huia (where Fleur and her family live) received its fair share of destructive weather but has pulled through ok.

    Now I’m a wee bit overdue on sending through an update on how Fleur is getting on - so here we go….

    In mid January, Fleur completed the 13th & final round of her unfunded treatment cycle. Fleur & Stefan would like to thank each of you from the bottom of their hearts as a large portion (just under $63k) of the $75k treatment cost was only made possible through everyone’s overwhelming give-a-little generosity.

    Throughout Fleur's last cycle there were a lot of ups & downs, and the treatment certainly packed a punch on Fleur’s body (which she handled in her stride like the incredible and determined woman she is). Upon completion of this cycle in January, Fleur was looking forward to a nice long break from treatment before needing to embark on next treatment steps - however a long break unfortunately was not on the cards, as Fleur’s symptoms kicked back into gear at an alarming rate not long after completing her final chemo session. These painful symptoms comprised of fluid on her lungs, along with painful urinary and bowel issues which resulted in several trips to the hospital. Thankfully, Fleur’s urinary issues have been relieved through the use of a catheter which she is hoping will be removed in the next few weeks.

    A couple of weeks ago, Fleur’s Oncologist recommended that she start immediately on a brand new 13 round treatment cycle using Avastin & Folfox (a different chemo ‘backbone’ but the same immunotherapy) which will target and alleviate Fleur’s symptoms along with the goal of keeping this awful disease at bay for as long as possible. Fleur’s treatment is non curative, but it will without a doubt give Fleur more valuable time with her family just as previous treatment cycles have. Fleur has reached the cost cap of the immunotherapy which means this part of the treatment is now no charge, however to administer this new regime will cost $52,000. Fleur totally understands that people have donation fatigue and there are so many other important things to donate too at this time but if you are able to help in anyway to contribute to pay for this new round of treatment which Fleur has now started - your donation would be greatly appreciated.

    Much love to you all xxx

    (If anyone would like to ask any questions you can contact Fleur via email stompin2006@gmail.com or private message her)

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  • Fleur’s Journey Update

      8 November 2022
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    Hi everyone,

    I have some extremely encouraging news for you all today - Fleur’s latest CT scan confirmed that she’s having a POSITIVE response to this round of treatment!! A number of tumours in her chest have reduced in size, and healing in other areas appears to be taking place - woohoo!!

    Even before Fleur received these official results from her Oncologist, we knew without a doubt that this treatment was working. Fleur has recently been feeling ‘really great’ - she is now able to enjoy a lot more activities with Isla and Hanah, and has been able to restart her 2km daily walks again (which has been challenging, but she is pushing through it). Fleur was also strong enough to perform at a recent gig in her Huia Band (even a blood clot in her lungs a few days before her gig didn’t keep her down!) She’s a true rockstar.

    It is all thanks to each and everyone of you that Fleur is able to continue with this unfunded treatment. However we still need help to ensure she can complete this full treatment cycle which costs $75k - so please share, share, share this page to help us reach the goal to pay for this full round of treatment.

    Much love to you all.

    xx

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  • Fleur’s Fight For Life Fundraiser

      14 September 2022
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    Thank you again to everyone who has so generously donated to help fund Fleur's non-funded immunotherapy cancer treatment. Fleur has now completed the first 3 of her 14 fortnightly treatment sessions of this new cycle, and whilst they do knock her around for a good couple of days afterwards, she is now starting to feel the benefits of the treatment kicking in which is just fantastic news! Fleur's energy levels are starting to increase and I can also see her positivity and determination getting stronger every day (and she's looking forward to putting that renewed energy into her next Huia Band gig in October).

    Also, I would like to share with you all another incredible fundraiser event for Fleur taking place this Saturday 17th September, which has been put together by their good friend Sjaan Morresey - a 24hour DJ Live Stream by Lockdown Legends that includes several incredible silent auction items. For more details on this awesome 24hour live stream event and info on the various auction items follow this link: https://fleursfightforlife.co.nz/

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  • Fleur's Treatment Is Underway

      15 August 2022
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    I would like to pass on my heartfelt thanks to everyone who has contributed to Fleur’s non-funded cancer treatment, and in just one week of fundraising we are now over half way there! Fleur & Stefan are absolutely blown away and incredibly humbled by the generosity of family and friends, and also by so many amazing people whom they have never met who have also donated. As I mentioned to Fleur this week - it's a true testament of how much this amazing lady means to so so many people.

    Last Wednesday Fleur started this new round of treatment (6 long hours in the chair every fortnight with both chemotherapy and Bevacizumab being administered). All going well, some of the painful symptoms she’s currently being experiencing will ease off very soon. One of the toughest symptoms Fleur is currently experiencing is the ongoing fatigue and she wants me to pass on her apologies if she doesn’t respond to messages straight away. Once her treatment starts working, Fleur’s energy levels should bounce back and I have no doubt it won't be long before she is back on her drum kit rocking it out with the Huia Band!

    To ensure Fleur can complete every round of this treatment cycle we still have more funds to raise to reach the goal of $75k, so please - share Fleur’s Givealittle page far and wide so we can reach as many people as possible. Every contribution no matter how large or small makes a huge difference.

    Thank you so much to each and every one of you – lots of love Cherie (on behalf of Fleur, Stefan, Hanah and Isla) Xx

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    • 15/08/2022 by Marion

      Lots of love to you Fleur! You are an inspiration! One strong lady, Kia kaha 💗