Fundraising to support my sister Nicola's beloved children Ryan and Josh after her tragic passing.

$37,700 donated
Given by 481 generous donors in 6 weeks

This page is set up to give my nephews a helping hand as they navigate life while facing the devastating loss of their Mother.

Nelson

Following the tragic and horrific loss of Ryan and Josh's mother in Nelson, New Zealand, on 4 September 2026, our family has been left devastated and struggling to come to terms with a loss that has changed all of our lives. For those who wish to help, we are accepting donations to support Ryan and Josh as they face an uncertain future without their mother.

This devastating event has deeply affected the wider Nelson community, but for our family the impact is immeasurable. Ryan and Josh are trying to process profound grief and trauma, while my parents and I are also grieving and now face the enormous responsibility of helping the boys navigate a completely new reality. They will need ongoing emotional, practical, and financial support as they work to provide the stability, care, and reassurance the boys need.

This page has been created for my nephews, my parents and I as we begin this difficult journey together. No child should ever have to endure such a traumatic experience, and no family can carry a burden like this alone. Any contribution, no matter the amount, will help ease the pressures ahead and give them the time, security, and support they need to grieve, adjust, and rebuild their lives.

Tracey Schroder's involvement (page creator)

Ryan and Josh are my nephews. My sister Nicola was their mother.

Use of funds

Any money received will be put towards a safe and stable home for Ryan and Josh and future schooling and studying that they may wish to do.

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Our sincerest thanks  21 September 2026

To everyone that has donated and shared, please accept my family's sincere thanks for your kindness and beautiful messages.

We held Nic's celebration of life last week and it was a beautiful and thoroughly heartbreaking service. So much love for her in the room and online. Her two boys spoke such heartfelt messages to their Mum, she would be so proud of them. Rest in love Nic xxxx

Thank you all again so very much, from my family to yours ❤️

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Zara
Zara on 14 Oct 2026
$500
J&W
J&W on 14 Oct 2026
$200
Marie
Marie on 09 Oct 2026
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Deb
Deb on 07 Oct 2026
$50
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Guest Donor on 06 Oct 2026
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This campaign started on 10 Sep 2026 and ends on 10 Dec 2026.