An attempt to make a dying man smile.
Kaiwaka, Northland
I'm a teacher aide here in New Zealand, over from Scotland in 2013. I'm the tall one, Joe the shorter one. Joe has stage 4 lung cancer, which has proven untreatable and has spread to his liver. In short, he's toast. I love Joe with all my heart,he's been through thick and thin with me for the last 30 years. My pals and wee brother all died whilst I've been out here in NZ. I never made it to funerals due to COVID and cost, and I don't want to not try to make this sh*tty hand that's been dealt, become a lifelong regret of "wishing I'd done something"!
Both of us are motorcycle lovers but never got to ride together due to my struggles, and availability, the idea is to try and explore NZ on Tw200s for a week or 2, dependent on Joe's health and funds etc. good old fashioned road adventure with freedom and friendship. Blow away the inevitable dark clouds.
I can't afford to get be back to Scotland in time, let alone the expired passport reality. So he suggested a bike adventure here in NZ. A last ride somewhere new. He's given away his bikes in Scotland to mates but I have a TW200 here in New Zealand and one has recently come up for sale, the timing is serendipitous, as they're hard to come by. The obstacles to this final farewell are inevitably financial. We are not rich ,or greedy, and I expect there are many more worthy causes for others to prioritize, but try I must. Haven't come up with any other ideas as of yet.The bikes are thin on the ground , and the opportunity is literally once in a lifetime,so I want to try and make that final farewell possible. Hence this.
Never done one of these fundraiser things before, so forgive my ignorance, I'm happy to provide references and transparency wherever required. my salary is stretched as far as possible. I don't drink, or do drugs, and voluntarily run recovery groups every week for 6 years, and work with children with difficulties. Joe has said he can afford to buy tickets out here, but after sorting out funeral costs, there's little to spare. The picture is of us getting to visit Arlo Guthries home. A dream come true once, thanks to the generosity and love of another great friend some 20+years ago.
Those who ride know, that "I don't wanna pickle, just wanna ride on my motor.... sickle"! Hope someone out there can help us with this, that and the other. And I hope you never, ever have to go through this yourselves. Thank you for taking the time to read this. Bless you. Stay safe, make the most of every second, and stay shiny side up. Sincerely , Chris
My best friend of 30 years,and godfather of my son. My brother,my pal,my eternal amigo.
Funds will go towards purchasing a Yamaha tw200 for Joe when he arrives
They will also go towards our combined costs for the trip such as food, fuel and accommodations etc
Updateish part ✌️ 8 March 2024
Joe will be in Achiltibuie, with some awesome fellow bike enthusiasts from the 5-7th of April, and then back to Edinburgh, (for a wash hopefully 🤣🤣) Then Fly out of Glasgow on the 8th for a 22hr flight to Sydney! Yup, he’s coming to see you guys in OZ!🥰 Thank you for making that possible. He arrives there on the 9th at midnight. A very brief and meaningful couple of days there and then a flight to Auckland New Zealand on the 12th. I’m so thrilled to be thinking about collecting my great friend from the airport, and truly thank every single one of you who have helped that happen. It’s a bittersweet reunion for us, but absolutely necessary. I’m going to have to stop this update at the moment, as I’ve been so focused on getting things ready, that writing this has forced me to recognise the tough part again, and it’s hard to see what I’m typing and hold back the tears. I’ll just say thank you again , and try and get a more enjoyable update up asap. I’m afraid photos have been taken on someone else’s phone at this moment, so haven’t got much to share visually. What I will share is probably sufficient to give you an insight into the last week. So much love for you all. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Adam. Very much appreciated. Not long now, and if I don’t have a heart attack or stress related stroke, we may very well enjoy the ride! 🤣🤣 Thank you so very much for helping make it happen. Lots of love brother ✌️❤️🤞
Hiya. Thank you so very much for your donation. It is truly appreciated. My apologies for such a late response. It's all a bit overwhelming as we get closer to this actually happening. Thank you for your kind and generous support. Without it , this wouldn't be possible. Lot's of love ✌️❤️🤞
Hi Peter. Thank you very much for your generosity and support for this. My apologies for the delay in expressing gratitude. It's been all systems go since this started to become a reality. A reality made possible by you and those like you. Amazing 😍. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Much love ✌️❤️🤞
Fantastic! Davy & Elaine! Thank you very, very much. So great of you both to be do kind and generous towards this. Joe's in the quagmire of finding an insurance company who'll insure him at the moment, so when that is sorted, dates will be updated. But I can say he really wants to include you in his trip. So fingers crossed 🤞. Really appreciate the help and support. Your donation is gratefully appreciated. ✌️❤️🤞
Thank you so much Laura. Very, very appreciated. We have had a very kind offer from someone who would edit and compile footage for us, so have started the ball rolling on creating a wee something for everyone who has invested in this. So all things going well, Everyone will get to come along for the ride, and everyone will have some of these memories. Thank you for your generosity,kindness and encouragement. It’s truly appreciated and gratefully received. Much love ✌️❤️🤞
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