Help a Trans Dude get out of an Awful Suitation

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Hi I'm Zach and I'm living in an abusive household and I have been ordered to move out before I get top surgery.

Auckland

Hello, I'm Zach, I'm a 25-year-old FTM trans person who is living in an abusive household, That is to put things as simply as I can.

The long story is, I am, as I said a 25-year-old FTM trans person who has been on HRT for 2 and a bit years. My transition has been a massive struggle in with both my own emotions and well being and that of my families coming around. My family disapprove of everything that has to do with me, both in choice of lifestyle (stay at home nerd/illustrator) and my transition. About 4 months ago I got a notification that I was able to get top surgery via the public listing. Since then I have been working on getting everything ready so that I could have a smooth operation and recovery, well that's what I thought anyway. I was told that if I get the operation, I was very much not welcome home.

So now I have to move out. and quickly as I have about 2 months left till my operation, well roundabout anyway, I haven't been given an exact date yet but I was quoted that it wouldn't take longer than 4 months (quoted 31st of July). I doubt I will have my operation in October/November just because of the lockdown but I would rather have my own place and set up before then just in case I do get a date.

I would also rather get out of dodge as quickly as I can because I am daily being threatened and yelled at, I am blamed endlessly for things I never did, I have my support animals being threatened to be killed, I have my stuff threatened to be burnt and destroyed and just genuinely my life at home is hell. I also can't do a 'normal' job I have PTSD major depression, anxiety, Fibromyalgia, and body spasms that so far are un-diagnosable. the closest idea I have is its a side effect from my PTSD.

I don't have a lot of money, if I did I wouldn't be here asking for help I'm scared that one day I or my cats will be in serious danger.

Use of funds

800 - Rent

1000 - car warrant/reg and repairs

1,500 - furniture/set up

that should cover everything if not at least help me get a start on my new life.

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The Road so far  4 January 2021

Hello everyone it has been a little while, I wanted to update you all on how my journey has gone. Well, I have my own place now I have fully moved out and into a small little townhouse. I am also fully recovered from my top surgery. Everything with that went well the operation itself and my recovery has been super smooth with great results. i am very happy to say i am starting this year off in a much better and much happier place.

I certainly couldn't have made it this far without the help of those of you who were kind enough to lend me a helping hand.

thank you all again so much from the bottom of my heart i wish you all a happy new years and a bright and promising 2021

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Monique TransLove
Monique TransLove on 18 Sep 2020
Hey Zachariah. I have a trans son waiting for top surgery and I’d hate to think of anyone not getting family support. We’re with you Sweets! 💜
$20
Zachariah Crozier

Thank you so much for the support, I hope your son didn't have to fight to get on the list as I did, Hopefully, one day no one will be without a loving family that supports them no matter who they are!

Zachariah Crozier
Lisa
Lisa on 18 Sep 2020
That sucks, best wishes for your future
$10
Zachariah Crozier

thank you for your support, I am hopeful that from here out my journey will only get better!

Zachariah Crozier
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Guest Donor on 18 Sep 2020
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Zachariah Crozier

thank you so much for your support I am super grateful for all the support I have been given

Zachariah Crozier
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Guest Donor on 18 Sep 2020
Sending you love from a mama of trans girl.
$35
Zachariah Crozier

Hello, I know this is late but I wanted to thank you, It's so heartwarming to know there are parents out there who are supportive of their trans children. An especially trans woman, no trans person's journey is the same nor is it easy. we all have a very trying journey ahead of us and its just really nice to know there is support out there from parents. thank you for your support and give your girl a high five from me!

Zachariah Crozier
Clerical
Clerical on 18 Sep 2020
Hang in there bro.
$100
Zachariah Crozier

Hello! I know this is late but I want to thank you from the very bottom of my heart. Thank you for the support I am forever grateful for it.

Zachariah Crozier

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This campaign started on 15 Sep 2020 and ended on 3 Oct 2020.