Help My Mate Live Pain-Free After 15 Years of Struggle

$59,540 of $100,000 goal
Given by 399 generous donors in 4 weeks

Helping my mate raise funds for spinal surgery in Australia so he can live pain-free and get his life back.

Wainui, Auckland

In 2008, my mate suffered a serious spinal injury after being blindsided by a bull while working as a stock truck driver. Since then, he’s undergone two major back surgeries in NZ, but continues to live in daily, debilitating pain.

Despite this, he’s pushed through for over 15 years working, raising his family, and never asking for help. But after re-injuring his back in 2024 carrying his daughter, things have become unmanageable. His only NZ surgical option would leave him with lifelong limitations and unable to work or care for his kids properly.

A leading spinal surgeon in Sydney has offered real hope: a specialised surgery to realign his spine and reduce his pain by 70% and get him back on his feet in just weeks. But it comes at a cost of $95,000 AUD.

He’s already sold his tractor to raise what he can, but it’s not enough and losing that machine affects his business. With his young daughter also facing ongoing medical issues, the family simply can’t do this alone.

Blair would never ask for any help hence why I am making this. This surgery will change his life giving him freedom from pain and the ability to return to work and fatherhood. Please help if you can. Every donation counts.

Matt Thetford's involvement (page creator)

Blair has been a good friend of mine for many years and is the hardest worker I know

Use of funds

The money will go towards specialist spinal surgery in Sydney, including hospital care, surgeons’ fees, anaesthesia, and post-op recovery support.

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Little update from us x   20 August 2025

Posted by: Kiri Waldrom

Hi All,

Blair and I are overwhelmed with gratitude for the incredible kindness, generosity, and support. We are booked and off to Sydney in a couple of days for Blair to have his spinal surgery on Tuesday 26th August. Each donation, message, and gesture of encouragement has brought us strength during what has been such a challenging time and has enabled this to actually become a reality for Blair to finally be able to have this life changing surgery he so desperately needs.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you.

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D Dando
D Dando on 24 Aug 2025
$50
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Paterangi Livestock on 21 Aug 2025
$500
Mark
Mark on 21 Aug 2025
Excellent to know that you are on the way to the much needed surgery in Australia. Best wishes for a smooth operation!
$50
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 21 Aug 2025
$5,000
Joe
Joe on 20 Aug 2025
Best of luck Blair and Kiri. Much love. We are all behind you. The Longs!!
$375

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This campaign started on 24 Jul 2025 and ended on 24 Aug 2025.