Help send Cynthia into the great hereafter with dignity and grace.

$3,020 of $6,000 goal
Given by 14 generous donors in 4 weeks

Help with end-of-life and cremation costs for Cynthia OBrien.

Prebbleton, Canterbury

After battling terminal lung cancer since last Christmas, mum has finally succumbed to death. Once treatment stopped, and as mum prepared to shuffle off her mortal coil, we have been faced with a number of costs that we are not able to meet. I had to stop working to provide full time care. Mums pain medication was $220 a month. There were also adjunct therapy costs, lawyer fees, as well as the actual funeral expenses.

I am really struggling to make ends meet, and any help would be greatly appreciated.

Mum has spent her whole life giving to others, now it’s our turn to give back.

Use of funds

The money will be spent on a water-cremation, a wicker casket, a silk shroud, and end-of-life creature comforts.

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Farewell   21 September 2026

Mum passed away Sunday night, after spending the day outside in her bed, with the wind in the trees, the birds singing, and the cherry blossoms falling gently all around.

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Jessy
Jessy 6 hours ago
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Dave S
Dave S 3 days ago
Much love to Cynthia and your loving family.
$100
Caitlin Kanis

Thank you!

Caitlin Kanis
Roxy
Roxy 4 days ago
All the best for you Cato and your mum and family
$50
Caitlin Kanis

Thank you!

Caitlin Kanis
Kristin
Kristin 5 days ago
Cynthia, and girls, I’m sure I cost you this much in a Lucky Charms during the afternoons spent in your home with Meghan. Very fond memories of being around the happy home that you did such a beautiful job of creating. With love from Kristin Cato
$220
Caitlin Kanis

Thank you!

Caitlin Kanis
Matt
Matt 7 days ago
$100
Caitlin Kanis

Thank you for your donation!

Caitlin Kanis

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This campaign started on 21 Aug 2026 and ends on 21 Nov 2026.