This page shares our adoption journey and helps us meet the unexpected costs involved in bringing our pēpi home
Whangarei, Northland
Kia ora, we are Rach and Ali, and we are reaching out for financial awhi due to unexpected costs introduced at the final stage of our international adoption journey. Adoption has always been the path we felt called to as a couple. Over the past 8+ years we have worked steadily through assessments, approvals, and extensive documentation, and are incredibly grateful to now be pre-matched with a child in Thailand.
We have personally covered the majority of adoption costs to date & planned carefully based on the info provided at each stage.
However, recently we were advised of new requirements, resulting in additional expenses beyond what we have prepared for.
These changes and new costs include:
• A required extension of our stay in Thailand from an originally advised 10 days to 3–4 weeks, covering additional accommodation & living costs.
• Accommodation in two locations within Thailand, along with required domestic travel during placement.
As both of us are self-employed, meaning time overseas is unpaid. The extended stay significantly affects our ability to cover ongoing expenses and reduces the financial buffer we would otherwise have when returning home to settle and bond with our child.
We have set a target goal of $10,000 NZD to help cover these unforeseen, adoption costs.
All donations go towards:
Extended stay in Thailand, including extra accommodation & living costs, plus domestic travel between 2 required places. Loss of income while overseas, as both adoptive parents are self‑employed & unpaid during this period.
Third time's a charm! 17 March 2026
Our travel dates have been moved a few times from the agencies, but yesterday we got some new dates and permission to book! We'll be flying around ANZAC day ✈️
Thanks so much guys! ❤️ cant wait for you both to meet him!
Thank you for your donation 🙂
Thank you so much!
Thanks a lot Deborah means a lot ❤️
Thanks Tamara, really appreciated!
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