Help reunite us!

A few months ago i met the person who i would later realise is the love of my life, and recently he had to leave New Zealand and go back to the country that he calls home. The way the story goes is that he was in the country as part of an OE (overseas experience) before he sets off to university and we met and instantly liked each other, over the next few weeks we realised that now that we had met we could not live without one another, now throughout all this we both knew that he would eventually have to go back home but that tragic day was not meant to occur for another 7 months. He lives in Germany (with a recidancy permit) but is originally from the USA, this means that living in Germany comes with conditions, one of these being that he cannot be out of the country for more than 6 months or he looses his residency (which takes 6 years to acquire in the first place), during his time in NZ he came to the conclusion that it would not be feasible to go all the way to Germany and come all the way back in a few days just to keep his residency, so he had to break the news to me that he had to go home 5 months early. Although he has only left recently it has been hard for the both of us as we used to see each other almost every day (and with a 12 hour time difference talking isn't that easy either), i want to put things back the the way they used to be where there wasn't half a world in between us and have therefore decided to plan a trip to go and live with him, but i want to leave before he goes to university and that is not that far off. To do this i need help, flights to Germany aren't cheap and neither is surviving in a new country but with a few month of work on my part and the help of much appreciated donations i know that i can make it