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Giving Caylus a beautiful farewell

$1,020 donated
Given by 13 generous donors in 10 days

A four-year journey of courage, hope, heartbreak, and unconditional love.

Auckland

Our beautiful son, Caylus, was diagnosed with Juvenile Myelomonocytic Leukaemia (JMML) at just 2 years old. He bravely endured chemotherapy and was blessed to receive a bone marrow transplant from a donor, allowing him to beat cancer.

Sadly, his journey didn’t end there. Caylus developed Graft-versus-Host Disease (GVHD), which severely affected his skin and later attacked his lungs. Although his skin healed, there was no cure for the damage to his lungs. Over the next three years, he relied on oxygen, a BiPAP machine, and countless hospital stays at Starship.

Despite everything, Caylus remained incredibly brave. He made friends, brought smiles to those around him, and faced every challenge with strength beyond his years. Our family balanced his treatments while raising his two brothers, and Starship Hospital became our second home.

On 25 June 2026, after fighting for four amazing years, our brave boy peacefully passed away at just 6 years old.

We are now trying to give Caylus the loving farewell he deserves. We don’t yet know the full cost of his funeral, but any donation, no matter how small, will help ease the financial burden. If you’re unable to donate, sharing this fundraiser would mean the world to us.

Some financial assistance may be available but will not cover everything.

Thank you for your kindness, love, and support during this heartbreaking time.

Caylin Kowhai's involvement (page creator)

I am the proud father of Caylus, and I am raising funds to help give him the farewell he deserves.

Use of funds

The money raised will help cover Caylus’ funeral costs and provide a beautiful urn to give our brave boy the farewell he deserves.

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Karen
Karen 5 days ago
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Caylin Kowhai

Thank you so much, Karen. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for everything you’ve done for our family. Your love, kindness, and support meant more than words can ever express. Caylus loved you so much, and knowing how much you cared for him will stay with us forever. We will always be grateful. ❤️

Caylin Kowhai
Guest Donor
Guest Donor 6 days ago
$100
Caylin Kowhai

Thank you so much

Caylin Kowhai
Tia
Tia 6 days ago
Baby Tia, jonjon and aunty shark miss you dearly
$20
Caylin Kowhai

Thank you guys

Caylin Kowhai
Sharna
Sharna on 02 Jul 2026
We are so deeply sorry to hear this :( our little girl was in one of the same rooms as Caylus during her PICU stay, so we had the absolute pleasure of being entertained by Caylus for a few weeks, he truly made our days better and helped us through a very difficult time. I am so sorry to donate such a tiny amount. Will be thinking of your family lots and lots and sending all our love xx
$10
Caylin Kowhai

Thank you so much I appreciate you reaching out to us I hope your daughter has a amazing recovery

Caylin Kowhai
Ali
Ali on 29 Jun 2026
Janice, heartbroken for your loss. Sending love and strength to you and your family. RIP Caylus.
$200
Caylin Kowhai

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Caylin Kowhai

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This campaign started on 25 Jun 2026 and ended on 5 Jul 2026.