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  • Right mastectomy surgery

      6 February 2025
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    I had a Right mastectomy and axillary lymph surgery last Monday. I've recovered well and have an appointment with the surgeon in a couple of days to arrange further surgery. I meet with my oncology specialist tomorrow to sort a chemotherapy regime. We have been so appreciative of the help I have received and that we have been lucky to get as a family. Thank you to all of you who have been do kind to us during this time.

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  • Happy New Year....on we truck into 2025

      7 January 2025

    Hiya Peeps.

    Treatment response has been described as excellent.

    I am so grateful.

    I'd be lying if I told you it's been easy....cos it hasn't been.

    But it's working!

    One more round and then evaluation.

    Next chemo is on the 17th.

    Thanks to all my supporters.

    It means more than you will ever know....to have such love through this.xxx

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  • Gelato in the City

      16 December 2024
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    Thank you to my friend Arsh for meeting me for Gelato.😊

    I think Jimmy would have been in Gelato heaven.

    I think just may need to return and try the rich chocolate one they had on offer....

    Actually I may need to return several times 😆😍

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  • Gelato Experience

      16 December 2024
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    I went out with my friend for Gelato.

    It was fun being in the hustle and hustle of the Central City in Christchurch. Lots of neat artwork and sculptures.

    And boy was the Gelato yummy.

    I choose berries and pomegranate.

    Absolutely delish

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  • Studio living

      16 December 2024
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    Pic of kitchenette of my wee studio apartment.

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  • Wee studio apartment

      16 December 2024
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    I rented a wee studio for a month. It was super cute...compact and functional 😊

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  • Chemo round 4 continued...

      16 December 2024

    I received help from the Invercargill CMHT.

    ( thank you Jo Maggie, Julz and Shelley) I had dear friends from the old days at Ward 12..that helped me discreetly and allowed me to have access to some much needed support and treatment.

    Since then.... I've slowly started to become more myself again.

    It has caused alot of anxiety and meant some of the people I know felt they had to set firm boundaries to protect themselves.

    It is a bitter pill to swallow...as I have not had a severe Mental health breakdown for 20 odd years.

    My new regime of 2 days less of the dexamethazone has helped somewhat.

    But every time I have treatment now..I risk a mental health deterioration which is a shame.

    There's no way around it...and I just have to keep up the treatments provided and I guess I need everyone to know...

    I AM TRYING SO HARD TO BE EVERYTHING EVERYONE NEEDS ME TO BE AGAIN.

    I have regularly attended church and I have got down on my knees at the alter...and PRAYED VERY VERY SINCERELY FOR HEALING AND REPAIR.

    I've had to hand it over to God.

    I am massivelygrateful to all who have shown up. And i hope and pray for good days ahead.xxx.

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  • Recuperating in Christchurch 😍

      16 December 2024

    After the last round of chemo...whereby I ended up staying with friends due to side effects ( blessed to have Lincoln and Trudy Baty!) For 8 nights instead of the 1 night I had originally

    planned...

    We decided it would be more comfortable for me to have a residential home to recuperate at.

    So.... I have a lovely house in Rolleston that I moved in to 3 days ago.

    It has meant that I don't have to rush home after treatment if I'm feeling awful ( tbh that's an understatement!! ...it's freaking horrendous)

    I can enjoy the comforts of a "home away from home "

    It's much nicer not living out of a suitcase and not having to get on a plane or drive if I'm feeling disgusting.

    The team...especially the Clinical Nurse Specialists ( huge gratitude for Jen and Eli ) at St Georges have been incredibly supportive.

    I am as "happy" as I can be...without Jjmmy and our Kiddos.

    Jimmy has been unbelievably amazing to me throughout this tough time.

    He has tirelessly held the fort at home and worked 2 jobs to help pay for our lifestyle..including cancer care.

    I don't know what I would have done without his support and love.

    I have not been the easiest patient/person....in general.

    My mental health was affected by Dexamethazone during the chemotherapy and post treatment 2 rounds ago I ended up very elevated in mood.

    Hypomania was unkind to everyone and I have many things/relationships that are in tatters due to my behavior and actions during that time.

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  • 1st round including Perjeta

      15 November 2024
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    I had my first round at St Georges Private Cancer Hospital yesterday.

    Perjeta has been purchased at $37'000....for 4 rounds.

    Thank you doesn't really express my families and my gratitude to those who gave so selflessly.

    One day I hope to be able to give back in ways I can...

    To all of you.

    Blessed. X

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  • Tortured Artists 🎨 🫣

      28 October 2024
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    Picking up old healthy vents....

    On the dopamine lookout.

    Painting was a delight with Karis

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  • All dressed Up.... nowhere to 🐝

      28 October 2024
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    Pretty party frock.

    To sit in and feel nice.x

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  • In my bee pinny. Enjoying cooking for family and friends.

      28 October 2024
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    Love not being seen as completely incapable.

    Making the most of the feeling good minutes.x

    Hours.....days🥳💜🤞🫶💪🙏🏾

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  • Reality check

      20 October 2024
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    Lost hair

    Lost a sister.

    Had my sister there.

    My best friends

    My Mum and Aunty Lyn.

    Massively grateful to Kate who donated a $2000 wig to me and to Shelley who made the painful process doable.x

    Devastated. X

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