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Life with PMDD - surgery fundraiser

$4,870 of $20,000 goal
Given by 49 generous donors in 7 weeks

Life changing surgery for PMDD.

Kaikoura, Canterbury

Pre Menstrual Dysphoric Disorder is the brains reaction to fluctuating hormones during the two weeks of the luteal phase. It’s a serious health condition causing varying physical and mental health issues.

Most of my life, I have faced insurmountable battles with depression, shame, extreme anxiety, pushed away people I care about, fearful of burdening anyone and contemplated suicide. If I wasn’t surrounded by my family who truly know and love me, I fear that I wouldn’t be here today.

I’ve been to endless doctors, counsellors, prescribed countless antidepressants and birth control and tried different treatments to find a solution. I was seeking an answer and help, positive that all of it is related to my menstrual cycle and not simply PMS, but none knew PMDD was a thing.

In January I visited a womens health specialist. I was diagnosed with severe PMDD and immediately placed on a treatment resulting in chemical menopause to determine if it is my brain reacting to fluctuating hormones. This treatment tests if I am a candidate for hysterectomy and bilateral oopherectomy. Surgical menopause and HRT are effective in relieving symptoms of PMDD. While I am grateful to have a way forward, it comes at a huge cost.

We can't get any funding from ACC or public health so we have opted to get a loan to pay for the surgery privately. This is an immense sum for our family but ultimately my health and quality of life are most important.

If you can help in any way with a donation no amount is too small, your support is greatly appreciated.

Use of funds

Total laparoscopic hysterectomy & bilateral salpingo-oopherectomy, including hospital stay.

Full cost, approximately $20,000

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Post Op  7 November 2022

This Wednesday will mark 3 weeks post op.

It has definitely been a challenge to slow down and let people help me but I have Josh and my family keeping me in check and reminding me not to overdo it.

I know the healing process is a long one, I still have to rely on everyone else to cook, clean, garden, run errands and basically do everything for me. We’ve been so grateful for all the support people have been giving us, donating, dropping off food, hanging out with the kids. Thank you.

I couldn’t do this alone, and I am reminded every day that I am not alone and I have love and support all around me.

Someone reached out to me the other day to thank me for sharing my story because she was in the same position and thought she was losing her mind. She has now booked herself in to see the specialist. I was so moved by this, I feel like I have to keep sharing my story because there are so many people suffering and if I can help even one person that makes it worth it.

So please keep sharing my post, talk to your loved ones, don’t be ashamed.

Thank you, so much love

Laurel xo

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Latest donations

Nikki
Nikki on 30 Nov 2022
$50
Laurel Foulkes

Thanks Nikki! I’ve really appreciated all your kind words of support and for helping us with this xx

Laurel Foulkes
Mallorie
Mallorie on 30 Nov 2022
You are so strong I’m so proud of you Lysm
$250
Laurel Foulkes

Lysm ❤️

Laurel Foulkes
Roxanne
Roxanne on 27 Nov 2022
What a journey Laurel, such a strong and amazing mumma inspiration you are xx
$50
Laurel Foulkes

Thank you so much, my dear friend xx

Laurel Foulkes
GRAMMA & GRAMPA
GRAMMA & GRAMPA on 25 Nov 2022
$300
Laurel Foulkes

Love you granny and Grampa. Thanks for everything 💕💕💕

Laurel Foulkes
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 25 Nov 2022
Well done, Laurel, for prioritising your health and well-being.
$100
Laurel Foulkes

Thank you so much for your generosity 💕

Laurel Foulkes

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This campaign started on 11 Oct 2022 and ended on 30 Nov 2022.