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Life of Cruz

  • 30/06/15

      30 June 2015

    Hi everyone, sorry about the delay in updating this! We are still currently at home and loving living a "normal" type life - although to some it wouldn't be with Cruzs busy schedule of physio, speech, O.T appointments, hospital visits every two weeks and his daily routine with his meds and machines....but we have definitely adjusted to this way of life and Cruz is the happiest little man and just thriving being at home.

    He has now started attending a Special Needs day care one day a week (for 2.5 hours) where the parents stay with the children. There is only 4 other kids in the class with varying disabilities, and it is so amazing seeing them trying to interact with each other, and the equipment and toys there is all well suited to each of them. I am loving taking him there and he is slowly getting used to being around more people and better with strangers. He has also started attending Arundel Horse riding for the Disabled where he rides a little black pony called Pepi once a week for 30 minutes ($25.00 per lesson). This is for physio reasons as it strengthens his core, and interaction with people again in a nice friendly environment. Cruz attends Speech and O.T therapy the old Coast Hospital (currently funded) and he goes to Physio once a week - which we have to fund ourselves and which Cruzs Givealittle fund helps tremendously towards as each session is $150 for an hour. As Cruz is growing and getting a lot taller, we are in the process of sourcing some bigger sized equipment, being a standing frame (and maybe a walker), and a larger pram as Cruz can still not sit on his own and is obviously not standing or walking at all yet on his own. Nath is currently making some bigger supported seating for Cruz. I just wanted to thank everyone again for your help and support as any equipment labelled "special needs" is so expensive, even second hand.

    Cruz is doing really well at the moment though and we are super proud of him. He is getting out and about now and loving being outside. He loves books, Thomas the Tank, Elmo, music and dancing. He is getting very cheeky and growing so well...hes even getting chubby cheeks!! Never thought Id see the day!

    Thanks again everyone for your support, it is greatly appreciated.

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  • Update as at 31.03.15

      29 April 2015

    I'm so happy to say that Cruz made it through his big surgery on 20th February and is now safely back at home, exactly one month following the surgery. For the first time every, this operation went without a hitch and Cruz recovered really well this time. I think going in to this operation planned, and the fact that Cruz was healthy and well really helped. Also having some weight on as he is usually looking pretty malnourished going into theatre, but not this time around.

    Everything went as planned in theatre and the surgeons were surprised that it went so smoothly. Cruz was out of theatre and in recovery in under 5 hours - not the all day op like we had been prepped for. His scars have healed well, he seems comfier while trying to sit upright and the biggest excitement so far is that we are now trialling feeds going into his stomach (rather than just his lower bowel and bypassing the stomach as it wouldn't work before). We are yet to see proof that he is actually absorbing the feeds and the test will be judging by his stools and also if he puts on weight over the next four weeks with weekly weigh-ins being done. But he seems to be tolerating them so far so we have everything crossed for this huge improvement. We are doing 6 feeds a day of 70mls (currently) into the button in his stomach of formula, and he is still connected the TPN machine (which feeds him through the line in his chest going into the main vein by his heart with special nutrition) for 16 hours a day - so from 7pm until 11am each day. But during the day now we can disconnect the feeding tube that hooks into the feeding button, so he is "tube-free" from 11am until 7pm now and we are finally able to pick him up and cuddle him during the day without carrying his feeding machine around and handling cords everywhere. The tube that was in Cruzs' nose has also been able to come out since the button in his stomach is working well - so he is also tube-free from his face! He looks really well and just like any other boy his age now. I had my first supermarket trip the other day without someone asking me what was wrong with Cruz....progress lol.

    We will continue on with physio, occupational therapy and speech to assist with Cruzs development, and am currently working on getting Cruz back to where he was before the latest operation with him rolling on both sides and putting pureed food on a spoon and getting Cruz brave enough to let me put it on his lips. All these things will take time with Cruz, like him learning to do tummy time properly, sitting, crawling, walking, learning to eat/drink etc - but we will be doing everything possible to give Cruz as much help as we possibly can and sourcing professional help where needed.

    Will let you all know how Cruz goes with his new feeding regime and whether his stomach is ready for this new method in a month or so. Thanks for taking the time to ready Cruzs journey.

    Lots of love, Tammy, Nath and Cruz

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  • Big Operation date now set 20th Feb 2015

      30 January 2015

    Well the time has come for us to take Cruz in for his "big op" we have been mentioning in previous updates. He is finally well enough to go in for major surgery, and has got a decent amount of weight on and this surgery is planned for once. The date for surgery is Friday, 20th February 2015 up at the new Children's Hospital in Brisbane - Lady Cilento Children's Hospital (LCCH). The same surgeon, who has operated on Cruz since he was 3 weeks old is doing it, along with another consultant level surgeon. This operation is going to take them all day and they have only booked Cruz in for the 20th.

    This is huge surgery and one to give Cruzs' stomach a chance to work on its own and prove whether or not it can actually work once everything has been fixed; or whether he is just someone whose stomach will never work and then we will have to go back to what we are doing with him 90% dependant on TPN and 10% feeds of formula through the tube going into his bowel. This is a huge decision for Nath and I as this operation is life threatening; but so is the way he is living now as a child cannot live forever on TPN especially when you are as reliant on it as Cruz is; We believe we need to take the leap of faith and give Cruz every opportunity he can to see if his body will work if it has a helping hand and surgery that works - and then it is up to Cruzs body really to let us know what it can do/handle...and then we will go from there. And also we want Cruz to have a quality of life as well, as at the moment he is hooked up to machines 24 hours a day. At this stage he cannot sit, crawl or walk, so it is relatively easy to keep him connected no problem and the machines are just a piece of him that gets carted everywhere we go, or on a pole that gets wheeled around our house/his bedroom etc.

    The goal after having this operation is that his stomach will empty faster (as one of his many problems is that his stomach doesn't empty and that is why he just ends up vomiting anything that is sitting in there ,hence the free drainage tube in his nose draining everything from his stomach and it has a little container on the end of it); that fluid/food down the track will flow through his body freely and without any kinks after they go in and cut away all of the scar tissue in his bowel area and straighten out the current kink in his duodenum; that he wont be able to vomit up as much with the narrowed oesophagus; and that we will be able to actually put his formula into his stomach rather than his bowel (which is where the current tubing sits in and we feed him so we are bypassing the stomach) which in turn would mean we can do bolus feeds which are like a "normal feed of milk" say for example 60mls goes in via the machine into the tummy over a 30 minute period and then we disconnect him from the machine for three hours so he has that free time, and then we hook him up to the machine in another 3 hours and do the same thing - so he's only hooked up for 30 minutes at a time and then is free for 3 hours to roam around with no machines attached - rather than like now 14 hours attached to TPN machine and then 10 hours on his feed/formula machine. The absolute goal would be to eventually get him off the TPN and on feeds only - and then he can also have his central line in his chest taken out and then no risk of line sepsis and infections and less risk of blood clots happening again too.

    On 20th February:

    -Crus will be put off to sleep and placed on the ventilator (breathing) machine. They will cut open the scar along Cruzs tummy (that has been re-cut open 5 or 6 times now...) and remove everything from his stomach down to his bum basically. They will then go through his intestines all and un-pick it all and start again and get rid of the scar tissue that has built up after each operation in there.

    - They will straighten out the kink in the duodenum area by making a few incisions and stitching together and opening the area up as they explained it like a kinked hose.

    - They will do a pyloroplasty which is layman's terms is enlarging the opening through which the stomach contents are emptied into the intestines allowing his stomach to empty more quickly.

    - They will do a fundoplication which is where the upper curve of the stomach is wrapped around the oesophagus which is to help aid the acid from backing up into the oesophagus as easily and then vomiting it up.

    - And they will also insert a Gastrosotomy Jejunostomy into his stomach so it will have two ports - one where I can drain stomach if all of this doesn't work, or if it does work I can feed into the stomach; and another port which goes further down into the bowel where I can feed if the stomach cannot handle it (which is where his current J-tube is sitting and we feed his formula in to.)

    He will go straight to ICU after this op and they wont wake him up (take him off the ventilator) for at least a day or two and the ventilator will breathe for him. It is then recovery time, and weaning off drugs time, and all of those horrible things that we have watched him go through so many times before. We have been told that if this operation goes well and there is no bleeding or holes in bowels, leakages etc...then we are looking at being in hospital for around a month at least. I have attached some diagrams so it makes more sense. I will try to keep you all updated as best I can following the operation.

    Sorry for the essay.....but want you to all know what's going on.

    Lots of love, Tam, Nath and Cruz xxx

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  • Update for 27/11/2014

      27 November 2014

    After two failed ""going home"" dates, we are aiming to try and head home this coming Friday, especially because the big merge of Qld Children's Hospitals is happening from 7am onwards this Saturday which would mean transporting Cruz via ambulance across the city to the new hospital. Both Nath and I are signed off on Home T.p.n and have Cruzs room all set up and ready to go (new pics attached), with containers for equipment and supplies, cubbies for containers, fridge for his t.p.n bags, rubbish bin, table for my sterile field and preparing his bags/ lines/ syringes and meds and wall background for glove holder/sharps bin. We had planned to go home Wednesday last week but unfortunately Cruz needed to go back into theatre last Friday and then developed a bacteria infection on top of surgery to his abdomen over the weekend and scared us all. So he has been recovering since and depending on his pain and blood results will determine whether we are able to go home Friday (albeit on extra meds like antibiotics and pain killers). So I will let you all know if we make it home this week...end of a 3 month stint to make a total of 9.5 months living in hospital to date....ugghh! Will keep you posted, wish us luck!

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  • Update for 01/11/2014

      1 November 2014

    So after a few big set backs, namely a blood clot in his central line in neck resulting in a i.c.u stint, and then another clot in his central line in his groin (now on long term blood thinning meds in form of needle twice a day), a respiratory virus, a cold, a snapped central line, going into theatre three times, his lazy eye becoming worse from the swelling in his face from the blood clot just to name a few....we are slowly making some progress in the fact that Cruz has had a stint of not vomiting for 7 days (even just 1 day was his record), his lazy eye is improving from daily patching, he is becoming stronger and more interactive from the regular therapies hes receiving in hospital (music, physio, occupational therapy, speech and orthotics). But as Cruz is taking quite some time grow and this will take some time even though he is on enteral feeds (through tube going into bowel and bypassing stomach) and t.p.n through the central line (line in neck going into large vein close to heart) he is very slow at putting on weight.....so after some careful consideration the hospital has decided to train Nathan and I how to administer the t.p.n and we are currently in the process of home t.p.n training with nursing staff which has involved study, doing practices and getting marked off, attending a St Johns first aid c.p.r course, and just doing as much as we can to soak up all we have to learn with the goal to be discharged home (until Cruzs big operations next year) before the hospitals merge and move to Lady Cilento Hospital on 29th November! I was asked to provide a list of monthly consumables we will need at home....its pretty huge with things like 650 syringes (not including spares!), a sharps bin, dressing packs, tapes, alcohol wipes, gloves, needles and drawing up needles, lines, tubes for example... And we have to basically set up Cruzs room like a hospital room at home with a fridge for his weekly supply of t.p.n bags, working bench for preparing sterile procedures of connecting and disconnecting t.p.n, drawers for all supplies, sharps bin for disposal of needles, pole to hang t.p.n bag and pump/machine.. ....but......we will be home and that's huge!! And very exciting!! On behalf of Cruz (and Nathan and I), I wanted to say a huge big thank you to each and everyone for even taking the time to read Cruzs journey, let alone donate to our beautiful son. We have been overwhelmed and basically speechless at the generosity of everyone and just the love and support of your kind words. Thank you so much, it means alot..... thank you from our brave Cruz xx

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  • Update for 03/10/2014

      3 October 2014

    Hi just wanted to say a big thanks to everyone who has donated in the past 3 days you are all great people who have shown how much you love and care for Tammy, Nate and Cruz and I know all this support would mean a lot to them. How cool to get to the $5000 mark today hopefully we can just watch it grow more and more. Take care have a enjoy your weekend - Jeff

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