Loving Husband and father little hope

Hello everyone

This is 'Dad' to so many of you- I have struggled with the decision to raise funds for my husband- asking for help publicly is excruciatingly painful- i have written this out many times in my mind and on paper but have always stopped myself from publicly asking for help. however we feel like time is running out- 15 months ago my husband had a slight stiff knee- and cramps- we went to the dr after things progressed- there was no evidence of anything wrong so we waited- this progressively got worse until the entire leg was swollen and stuck totally stiff- this then lead to his left arm- left leg- now right leg- swallowing and breathing are becoming difficult at times- his speech is slurred to the point of not understanding him sometimes. We have had what I feel is mild standard tests- all referrals have been declined to any specialist so we are now seeking private medical care. I'm so scared for our children and my husband I just need help- I'm caring for my husband now and he can't work- it's not deemed a accident so no help from ACC. I am now regretfully putting our family at the mercy of all of you to gain some funding to support us through medical appointment and hopefully treatment. Thanks so much for reading this