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Our beautiful Nisha, to conquer.

  • August Update. Keep on keeping on.

      22 August 2019
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    Kia ora whanau and friends

    .Firstly thank you all for your continuous love and support, always

    greatly appreciated.

    Tonisha continues to do well albeit she is very tired

    at the moment, following her last lot of chemo.A few weeks ago Tonisha's oncology doctor gave Tonisha a treatment schedule, which covers the next two years.. Tonisha is coming up to completing month three tomorrow. This has become our new normal. The treatment is in various blocks of 21 days( 3 cycles) and then 56 days, then various other blocks. There is chemo and other fluid infusions some of it to counteract potential side affests. We have been informed treatment for leukemia is rather complex. Good news ( Great news) is the cancer is in remission which means it is no longer progressing. Hallelujah. Full medical clearance still will be a few years off. However the chemo /treatment regime still remains at an intense level. so still a wee ways to go. She is recieving lot more infusions and injections this last round which has her very tired and in a bit more discomfort than previously.In he last round at one stage Tonisha has 4 separate lines running into her( see the photo) Poor thing had to push the infusion bag trolley thing with three machines on it to go to the toilet. I'm no expert but I think the aggressive treatment approach is now more from a preventative perspective. I may be over simplifying things but the main thing is that the medical team are pleased with the progress. Tonisha still remains resilient and consistent and calm as she has since day 1. Some of the treatment blocks will require her to be an inpatient at the hospital due to the intensity of the chemo and the need to be constantly under observation

    Our new normal is Tonisha will still be based at RMH probably for at least the rest of the this year. Big shout out to RMH, great place, great staff.

    Between Gene, Sini, and I one of us usually stay with Nish in the evenings. Gene is here in wgtn Thurs night to Mon night. I stay the other week nights joined by Sini on her days off. Nana Ivy and our other kids drop in when they can. Nisha has also started venturing back to Kapiti for visits when she has been given the ok by the hospital.

    Apologies for such a long post. To our praying friends and brethren please continue to pray for a complete healing ( medical clearance) for Tonisha. Also your prayers act like a wall against the leukemia cells trying to spread( this is what chemo is doing in the natural. ) Also please prayer against any adverse side effects both short term and long term. Some of the recent chemo can cause liver/ kidney damage but we stand in faith believing for the best outcome . Tonisha has only vommitted once throughout the treatment. She's tough and as we have said previously just takes it all day by day.

    So thank you all once again. Your warm thoughts and prayers are so appreciated and are truly making a difference.. We are all doing well as a family and remain thankful to our heavenly father and to all you guys for sustaining us.

    Thanks for reading.

    Blessings and love to you all.

    Arohanui

    Brendon , Sini, Tonisha and whanau ( and Charlie their dog)

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  • July Update Tonisha Is Doing Well.

      29 July 2019

    Apologies for not updating sooner. It has been just over 2 months since Tonisha's diagnosis. She is progressing very well and near the end of her second block of chemo.

    There has been no adverse side affects and the medical team are very pleased with her progress.

    Tonisha will remain at Ronald McDonald over the next 2 months as she still has scheduled chemo and monitoring. Her full treatment schedule runs over a 2 year period. Tonisha remains in good spirits and in a positive frame of mind. Once again we thank you all for your continued love and support. We appreciate your continued prayers and support. We appreciate if you could continue to pray for a complete recovery and against infections as her immunity system is still very low.

    We continue to thank God and give him all the glory and thank him for the victory. We are truly blessed to be here at Ronald McDonald in our own apartment. They are fantastic. We are ever so thankful for the many blessings and miracles along the way. Arohanui and God bless you all.

    The Parata whanau ♥️

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  • Tonisha is progressing well.

      19 June 2019
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    Kia ora to our whanau, friends and loving donors.

    We remain totally humbled and eternally grateful to each and everyone of you.

    Tonisha is doing fantastic and has not had any adverse reaction to the chemo or medications. She just completed her fourth round of chemo yesterday and the staff are really pleased with her progress. She still has one more week of chemo then they will run more tests to see how effective the treatment has been.

    Tonisha was discharged today but will remain at Ronald McDonald house as she needs to remain close to the hospital for her ongoing treatment. There will always be either Gene or a family member staying with Tonisha each day. Tonisha remains in a positive frame of mind.

    She decided to shave her hair on the weekend and still looks as stunning as ever. You'll see a few more pics we've added showing Tonisha's progress over the past few weeks.

    Once again thank you all so much for your love and support.

    We love you all

    Arohanui

    The Parata whanau.

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  • Humbled By Your Loving Generosity

      7 June 2019
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    On behalf of Tonisha, Gene, Haisini and I want to say how totally blown away we are by the huge outpouring of generosity. It leaves us speechless and so humbling.

    The Givealittle page was launched 8 days ago and already over $6000 in generous donations. WOW. Thank you, thank you, thank you all so very much. We are ever so truly grateful.

    Current Update

    Gene has returned to work for 3 days a week Tuesday to Thursday and spends Friday to Monday with Nisha. So he loses two work days without pay. Nisha was only working a part time causal job at the time she received the diagnosis. Your generous donating will greatly alleviate the financial stress and pressure and frees Gene up to be by Tonisha's side.

    Tonisha remains positive in her outlook and ever so thankful to you all. Her chemo at this stage is scheduled to run through to the end of June and so far she has NOT experienced any negative or adverse side affects . An answer to prayer. Tonisha remains as an inpatient during the chemo treatment and gets the occasional break from the hospital pending the Dr's permission. She is so very brave and daily continues to inspire us. She takes each day as it comes and remains in a good frame of mind. She remains calm in her heart and mind. She acknowledges and appreciates your support, love, encouragement and prayer. And like us remains awestruck by your financial generosity. Once again thank you to each and every one of you donors. Every little bit truly does help.

    We will keep you updated on Nisha's progress.

    We as a whanau stand strong and United believing for a positive outcome.

    Thank you for standing with us

    God bless you all.

    With all our love

    Arohanui Brendon( Nisha's dad) and whanau.

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