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  • 7 month post accident update

      26 April 2024
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    Jaydens family, Carrie, Mike & Taryn wanted to post a quick update on his progress....

    Just wanted to say that it's been 7 months since Jaydens accident and he finally had his cranioplasty on April 8th to insert an acrylic cap into his skull . Recovery is progressing well with therapy 5 times a week. Still a long slow road ahead, but he has already achieved so much more than was ever expected. Thank you once again to those that helped us through the roughest part of this journey.

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  • Latest and last update

      18 December 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter
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    The Kemp Family would like to express their enourmous thanks to all who have donated to this page. Every dollar has made a difference and enabled us to be close to Jayden during his initial fight for his life and then for the early stages of his recovery. It also helped cover some ambulance rides that were not covered by ACC and other expenses that Jayden was unable to pay for himself. We simply could not have managed without this support and we cannot thank you enough.

    Jayden will be coming home December 23, after spending 86 days away in hospital and the brain rehabilitation facility. He has come so far already, but there are still some huge mountains to climb and many, many more months of rehabilitation at home. He will also require 2 further surgeries in the new year, one of which will be to fit a prosthetic skull piece back into his head. Until then he will wear a special saftey helmet.

    We will close this page December 31st. Thank you all once again and massive thanks to Maria & Jo for setting up and managing the page XXX

    PS: The photo of Jayden is confronting, but it shows one of the realities of a severe brain injury and also one aspect of that injury that he is dealing with at the moment.... once the prosthetic skull piece is in, it will be another huge obstacle he has conquered.

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  • Sunday 26th November

      27 November 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    Update: Another up and down week. Shunt revision has worked well, swelling and therefore pressure are both down. He has regained use of his right side (which had been temporarily paralyzed with the pressure), although it remains quite weak in compariosn to pre-op. The new shunt catheter location is working well so far and he is no longer feeling sick all the time. This had him eating hardly anything for several days and his total weight loss is now at 14kgs. He is still unable to walk more than a few steps (aided with a helper each side), before passing out and is also now on anti seizure medication (he had started having mini seizures where his body would just freeze - eyes wide open). This is all very distressing for him, as he was walking well unaided 2 weeks ago and he hates being reliant on others to get him to the bathroom. He is not too keen on all the medications he has to take and loathes being hooked up to anything - he currently has a heprin drip for the new blood clot that has formed in his neck. He was quite emotional today, which then made us quite emotional on leaving. The long slow road continues, but we remain utterly thankful for where he is at right now given the original prognosis and very thankful and grateful for all the support we continue to receive.

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  • 15th - 19th November

      19 November 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    By late Tuesday afternoon it was obvious to the surgeons that Jaydens decline would not allow for them to wait for the prosthetic skull piece to be made. He had lost his speech & strength & did not recognize his family - fluid and pressure were rapidly rising. Meeting was held Wednesday morning and it was decided they would have to insert a shunt on the opposite side of his head. This happened Thursday afternoon. Despite initial improvements Thursday night, Jaydens right hand was unable to move at all yesterday and he was feeling unwell most of the day. I noticed a lump in his right arm and they did an ultrasound before we left, then doc ordered another CT overnight. This morning(Saturday) Jayden was quite unwell, vomiting most of the day. Doctor came to see us and said scan on arm was fine, but they also checked the neck area and he has formed a small clot by the shunt tubing, which has also traversed an artery, so now they have to go back in, remove that shunt and put a new one on the other side of his head. Another round of major surgery this morning- Will update on this later. We would like to take this opportunity to once again extend our deepest gratitude to you all for your donations. We are so grateful for the support- it has meant we have been able to drive back and forth every day, and pay for those unexpected bills that ACC won't cover. Cover our expenses while in auckland as well, & we have been able to be with Jayden every step of this journey. THANK YOU ALL.

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  • Tuesday 14th November

      14 November 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    Update, rough day yesterday, struggling with language and quite weak on right side. Worse today, now completely non verbal, right side not moving much at all. Just been for another scan to check fluid levels and pressure. Shunt not an option until his has a prosthetic piece inserted where the skull bone has been removed, but that's a 2 week wait to get an exact match 3D printed, so we wait and see what they might need to do in the interim.

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  • 1st November

      1 November 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    "On sunday Jayden was taken to Waitakere Hospital after spells of passing out and low blood pressure. A CT scan revealed an increase in the fluid accumulating in the brain. He was trasnferred back to Neurosurgery at Auckland hospital, where they have altered his medications and are monitoring him closely with a view to return him to ABI to continue his rehabilitation once stable again.

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  • Labour's day update

      23 October 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    Update Day 25. Another good stable day today. Jayden heads off to ABI brain rehab centre in Ranui tomorrow where he starts the next (and probably longest) part of his recovery journey, as he learns how to walk again, eat regular food (not just liquid nutritional supplements) and basically how to function independantly once more.

    At some point during his time there, once the brain swelling has gone down, he will go back to hospital to have either the piece of skull or a titanium plate inserted. In the meantime he will need to wear his special helmet whenever his is out of bed.

    Still can't believe 25 days ago they did not know if he was going to survive the initial operation and 20 days ago didn't know if he would ever wake up! Still a long road ahead for Jayden and us as a family and we are forever grateful for all the support we have received

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  • Day 21

      19 October 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    Jayden is talking-a LOT-on a small amount of subjects, repeating himself 40+ times a day. He is having spells of passing out when he thinks too hard, or gets emotional- it's the brain basically shutting down due to overload, more rest & reduced visiting going ahead. He's still not really eating- something has gone wrong with the signals, so tastebuds are confused & he says everything tastes disgusting, he feels sick when he eats & he never feels hungry-we can see he's lost a fair bit of weight and can hear his stomach rumbling. Nutritionalist is on board for these issues. He still can't sit up-every time he tries, he passes out. Brain swelling has gone down at the front of his head (which sadly now makes it look sunken in on one side), but above the ear and the top of the head are still fairly swollen. ABI rehab centre staff visited today, assessing him as a candidate for their programme- He is likely to spend some months out there. ECG test every day to check the heart, as cardiologist wasn't happy with some of the results. All in all, he's doing well and much better than any of the doctors ever expected, but clearly some things are still an issue and there is still a long road ahead for him (and us) as we journey towards him being able to return home.

    Mike, Taryn and I are exhausted, but doing OK. We've been amazed & blessed by the amount of support offered in all the different forms & could not have gotten this far without it, so a massive thank you to you all xx

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  • Thursday 12 October 2023

      12 October 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter
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    Update 12th October 2023

    The past 8 days since the last update have been a roller coaster for Jayden and the family. Numerous medical procdures, long days at Jaydens bedside, loads of waiting and watching. Each day brings its own highs and lows. Last Saturday brought the biggest step so far- when Jaydens vent was removed and he is breathing on his own. It felt like a monumental moment... and in some ways it is.. the reality is, it's a baby step on a very long road... but a step in the right direction none the less.

    Day 12 - Tuesday 10th October was a massive day. Jayden was put into a special padded chair for a few hours, then a therapy dog came in and Taryn helped Jayden pat the dog. He then turned his head, saw the dog and reached up to pat him by himself. It was a very emotional day. He was moved from critical care to HDU today as well. Still non verbal and sleepy, not following commands yet but is squeezing hands voluntarily. All good signs.

    The family would like to once again express their deepest gratitude to each and every one of you. The love and support has made a huge impact on us all. Thank you all so very much.

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  • 4th October Update

      4 October 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter

    Update. Jayden had a fairly settled night. Found a blood clot in his right arm today whilst trying to get a blood test via ultrasound. He's off for a CT shortly which will let them know if they can start a small amount of blood thinners to help with all clots. Jaydens body is not currently absorbing the liquid feed they have started, so they are looking to add a medication to help with that. Numbers are bound to spike with today's procedures before settling down again, so will update later today after CT.

    Mike, Taryn & I are overwhelmed with the amount of love and support we are receiving and are completely blown away by the generosity of people. To to all who have supported us and for all of the donations to help us with costs whilst we navigate this difficult time - Thank you all from the bottom of our hearts. Xxx Carrie

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  • Today's update 3rd October

      3 October 2023
    Posted by: Jo Cotter
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    Thank you all for the amazing support and generous donations. We are all blown away by your kindness Here is the lastest update on Jayden:

    The neuro team tried a slight reduction in sedation last night, but intercranial pressure (ICP) shot up, so they put the sedation meds back up. The ICP Level has come back down, as has his heart rate. His central line has been moved to his neck. They reduced adrenaline and paused diazapan medications. Trying to get stable for today and if he is, they may try another slight reduction tomorrow.

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