Please support Dylan as his mum has cancer

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Please support Dylan as his mum passed away from cancer

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Delwyn was an incredible daughter, sister and friend who blew everyone away with her kindness and thoughtfulness. And her amazing talent to always find the perfect GIF. Most of all though, she was a fantastic mum to Dylan, her 8-year-old son.

It was a big shock for Delwyn to be diagnosed with breast cancer in 2020 and had to undergo multiple surgeries, chemo and radiation during a pandemic - while still being a single mum to her beloved son. However, she came out the other side and life was looking up till recently.

Two weeks ago, a friend took her to the emergency department as, in her words, “things didn’t feel right”. Sadly, scans show the cancer had returned and is widespread. Delwyn was admitted to hospital immediately and remained there until her passing. Treatment was not an option, however, her room was full of friends and family sitting with her, surrounding her with love and letting her know she was not alone.

We know that Delwyn touched many lives in small and big ways. From those she has worked with and taught in ESOL, to fellow parents in her community, people she went to university with, or those who also know the breast cancer path.

Delwyn was 43 years old and had been looking forward to many years of watching her son grow, sharing in the joy of his life and being there for him every step along the way.

We are asking for funds to support Dylan and ensure that every opportunity is still possible for him now that his Mum is not able to be there in person.

Jilanne Holder's involvement (page creator)

Delwyn and I were been friends for 25 years. We went to Massey University together, flatted in Auckland and travelled to London. My son is the same age as Dylan.

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Future education or any other costs he may need. Funds going to Dylans father Barry.

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Sad news to share with you  24 June 2023

It's with great sadness that I let you know that Delwyn passed away yesterday after 2 weeks in hospital. She had many friends and loved ones who came to see her during this time and many more who sent messages from overseas. We send love and light to her family during this time. I'm thankful for all that she has done in this life and I'm at peace knowing that she is not suffering anymore.

I will miss you, my beautiful friend.

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Nathan
Nathan on 17 Jul 2023
Delwyn and I met during University, we were in the same dormitory, we flatted together in Palmerston North and later in Auckland, and we shared a common interest in the Japanese language and culture. Although the years after the distance seemed greater living overseas, we were able to reconnect during her challenging time a few years back. Delwyn was always the life of the party, had an amazing ability to make us all laugh, and these fond memories of her will stay with us forever! Sending caring thoughts and best wishes to the family and of course Dylan.
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Sarah
Sarah on 13 Jul 2023
❤️ A kind and radiant person
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Denise
Denise on 03 Jul 2023
Great friend of my dlaughter Jilanne. Thinking of Delwyn's family and friends at this sad time 💕
$100
Gaye
Gaye on 03 Jul 2023
With love and caring for you Dylan Hugs Gaye Gaye 💟
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Natasha
Natasha on 01 Jul 2023
I met Delwyn 22 years ago when we worked together and we became the best of friends. She was beautiful, kind, funny and very brave and she loved being a mum to Dylan with all her heart. I miss you my beautiful friend ❤️
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This campaign started on 22 Jun 2023 and ended on 19 Jun 2024.