Raising fund for Gwen's Gender Surgery

$1,226 donated
Given by 18 generous donors in around 12 months

Kia Ora! I've started a givealittle to help fund my GRS. Please share around! I would be eternally grateful for any help.

Wellington

Kia Ora, my name is Gwen (or as my friends call me Transgwenda). I’m a 33-year-old transgender woman from Wellington. I’ve been living authentically for four years and work as a registered mental health nurse, mainly with youth. I feel privileged to be a supportive figure for younger queer folks.

However, I have my own struggle with chronic gender dysphoria, which causes me deep grief. I know that gender-affirming surgery (GRS- Also known as “Bottom surgery”) will give me the peace and confidence I need to feel at home in my skin. I’ve chosen the Suporn Clinic in Thailand, which offers exceptional care and techniques not available in New Zealand, where the waitlist for surgeries is decades long.

I initially thought I could use my KiwiSaver for the surgery, but that’s not possible. I’m now saving every cent I can and asking for help to reach my goal of NZD 33,000 to NZD 35,000 for the surgery, travel, accommodation, living expenses, and unexpected costs. I am setting an open goal as anything will help me reach my goal.

Crowdfunding feels a bit uncomfortable since I’m no more or less deserving than any other trans person, and I want to ensure my supporters get something meaningful in return. I plan to sell pride-themed T-shirts and binders for transmasculine individuals once I have the designs ready.

Use of funds

I've put the goal as an open goal. Even if we don't raise the full amount i'm still going to put it towards getting surgery at some point.

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Latest update

Birthday  4 December 2024

Well my birthday is tomorrow... And I still don't feel that much closer to where or who I want to be. Had another meeting with Tim my finance guy and yeah... 4 more years of saving to get the bare minimum I would need. It's times like this I feel like giving up. It's times like this I generally feel the worst... I have to keep going, with everything, Weightloss, savings, side projects, life! It's just... *Sigh* I am grateful for what I do have. But I don't have everything I need. Love to all my donors. Gwen

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Latest donations

Kalina
Kalina on 03 Sep 2025
$50
Eliot
Eliot on 20 Feb 2025
Hey! I know it isn't much but this money, but it was hard earned educating people about hormone blockers/queer health issues and I wanted to pass it on in a way that would support the community, so I hope it helps!!
$19.76
Gwen Davies

Thank you so much for your support. Thank you for your Mahi educating people. Gwen

Gwen Davies
Jamieson
Jamieson on 30 Dec 2024
$25
Tecchie
Tecchie on 17 Dec 2024
Happy Belated Birthday
$100
Michelle
Michelle on 06 Dec 2024
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This campaign started on 20 Oct 2024 and ended on 18 Oct 2025.