Sam and Dylan's loss of two children by Ectopic pregnancies.
Bay of Plenty
It’s not always that easy to have a baby, one thing Sam and Dylan wanted is to become Parents. Now it seems like that dream may be withering away.
It all started on October 27th 2017-been told she was pregnant and then to be told seconds later it wasn’t good. She was one of those unlucky 5% of people to be having what they call an Ectopic Pregnancy, which means the baby has attached In the Fallopian tube. The only solution is surgery to remove the tube and the baby as it can cause loads of complications for Sam.
During surgery they found endometriosis, this was taking over many organs which is more than likely the cause of the Ectopic Pregnancy, which had scarred the tubes.
With grieving the loss of a baby, Sam and Dylan kept their heads held high and prayed the right tube was all ok. The chance of this happening again being roughly 20%.
Then on February 12th Sam's worst nightmare came true, to find out she was once again pregnant and thinking surely this wouldn’t happen to her a second time...She was wrong. So back to the hospital into surgery, now left with no tubes but healthy ovaries, her only option is full IVF treatment. Even thou she will qualify immediately there will still be a huge wait. Taking all this time off work in such a short period of time has taken a huge toll on Sam's and Dylan’s financial situation and feel she and Dylan can’t have the time to grieve like she would like too. They are beautiful souls who deserve a tribe of children. The least we could do is help with their finances in this hard time.
Sam is a work colleague and friend. She has been through so much and now this to happen to her and her partner Dylan, this is the least I could do. They both need to grieve and not worry about missing work or paying the bills.
Sam and Dylan have had to take a lot of time off work especially with surgery’s being so close together. With the odds of the ONE free government funded treatment through fertility Associates being quite slim to be successful we want to have this money for that second round just in case! Also all the trips Sam has to take to gps, gynos ect for her endometriosis.
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