Urgent Call for Help – Supporting Dexter and His Family
Whangarei, Northland
Dear Kababayan,
I am reaching out with a heavy heart to ask for your help for our fellow Filipino, Dexter Andes, who is in his final days at North Haven Hospice, Whangarei.
Dexter arrived in NZ two years ago on a work visa and worked as a painter in Kerikeri. Earlier this year, he was diagnosed with metastatic colon cancer. While there was initial hope for surgery, doctors confirmed the cancer had spread extensively, making treatment impossible.
His employer has been incredibly supportive, even flying his wife, May, from the Philippines just over a week ago, so she can be by his side. They have a blended family of six children back home who are heartbroken.
We humbly ask for your help to support Dexter and May during this time. Your prayers and any donations would make a huge difference.
You are also welcome to visit Dexter at North Haven Hospice if you wish to offer comfort or validate this message.
Let us come together as a community for Dexter, May, and their family. Your kindness, generosity, and prayers mean the world during this difficult time.
Maraming salamat po, and God bless us all.
With gratitude,
Updates:
- Repatriation costs for Dexter’s remains or ashes - Dexter wishes to be cremated, and these costs and a memorial to him are being covered by Dexter's employer
- Temporary accommodation for May - Dexter's employer has confirmed they are covering this
- Immediate essentials, like a replacement phone to contact family - received from fellow Pinoy
I was contacted by the hospice team as their former employee to introduce myself and support them
Repatriation costs for Dexter’s remains or ashes
Temporary accommodation for May
Immediate essentials, like a replacement phone to contact family
29/08/2025 - Donations will now go toward supporting Dexter’s family with everyday living expenses and household bills.
Rest in peace, Dexter... 15 September 2025
With deep sadness, we share that Dexter passed away in the early hours of September 12. We are grateful for all the prayers, love, and support that have been extended to him and to May.
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