Vince's funeral costs and plaque

Vince died in October 2019, leaving behind 4 beautiful young children. Vince's Dad Merv took control of the account for Vince's funeral. Merv has now lost his Dad and has a lot of unexpected costs. I will help Merv as much as I can but with 2 young children to raise, this isn't that easy. I would love to raise some money to help Merv pay for Vince's funeral costs and to have a plaque made for a headstone where his ashes will be burried