42k for 42k - Running a Marathon in One Year to Fund My Sister's Transition

$1,239 of $42,200 goal
Given by 14 generous donors in around 5 months

I'm running my first ever marathon to fundraise for my sister's gender affirmation care. Come with me!

Auckland

Roughly 5 years ago, my younger sister Vi came out as transgender in her early twenties, and everything finally made sense. Despite a ton of love and support from friends and family, there's one remaining barrier she has to finally living as herself, and that's accessing surgery.

Surgery is both VERY expensive and difficult to access here in Aotearoa, with a public waiting list for some specialists over 10 years long. 10. YEARS. Vi resigned herself to waiting that long, and intends on working hard to save for gender affirmation care...

But as her older sibling, I can't just sit here. I want to help, in any way possible. So, despite absolutely no distance running experience and a fair amount of millennial back pain, I'm taking on the challenge to run a 5km, 10km, an 18km, a half marathon (21.1km), AND a marathon (42.2km) in less than one year. With your help, I hope to raise $42,200 - $1,000 per marathon kilometre - to give to Vi so she can finally access affirmation care that will allow her to live fully as herself. If you donate anything at all, share, or support this page in any way, thank you.

Thank you a million times. You cannot imagine how much it means, and how much of a difference it's making in a young woman's life.

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Dale Nel's involvement (page creator)

Vi is my younger sister, my only sibling. Despite virtually no distance running experience, I'm running because transition care and gender affirming surgery is so difficult to access, yet so important for those loved ones in our lives who need it.

Use of funds

Every single cent will be spent on gender affirming care for my sister. She will choose exactly where, when, and how. Even if I don't raise the full amount, anything given will mean so much to both of us.

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Activity tracking

Time spent exercising: 7 hrs 4 mins
Total distance covered: 51.5 km

Latest activity

First Run with Vest!  27 February 2026

34 mins
4.2 km

Bloody love the Osprey vest.

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Latest donations

Lauren
Lauren 1 hour ago
$50
Jenny
Jenny 6 hours ago
$30
Megan
Megan 17 hours ago
$20
Shawn :]
Shawn :] 19 hours ago
I'm back! Wishing you all the luck with fundraising (and running)!! :D
$30
Bria
Bria 19 hours ago
$50

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Created by, and paying to a verified bank account of, Dale Nel on behalf of Violet Winter, my sister
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This campaign started on 20 Sep 2025 and ends on 31 Dec 2026.