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A daughter's plea 🙏 Stand beside my warrior dad in his fight against brain mets

$2,400 of $7,250 goal
Given by 29 generous donors in 17 days

My dad’s battle with brain mets is fierce, and your support means everything!

Manawatu / Whanganui

My father has been bravely battling metastatic prostate cancer since 2021. Each year has brought new challenges and hospitalizations, but this year has been especially heartbreaking. Since July 8, he’s been confined at ManilaMed. His condition deteriorated quickly, his creatinine spiked, leading to a diagnosis of end-stage renal failure. He now undergoes dialysis thrice weekly through a permcath. His strength fades with every session.

Hormonal therapies are no longer helping, and chemotherapy may do more harm than good. His appetite has faded to almost nothing, and he’s being fed through a nasogastric tube. Even small movements leave him breathless he now depends on oxygen. Then on Tuesday, the seizures began. A CT scan confirmed brain metastasis, news that turned our world upside down. Radiation is planned to help manage symptoms as part of palliative care.

As I write this, my heart is aching. Watching someone you love disappear slowly is indescribable. I’ve always looked up to my dad, he’s a self-sacrificing hardworker all his life. I’m terrified of losing him but even more so, I don’t want him to keep suffering. My dad is a warrior but no warrior should have to face this battle alone. I’m reaching out for your prayers and any support you can offer. Every contribution will go directly toward his care. Your generosity means the world to our family and helps bring him the comfort he deserves.

Abigail Catu's involvement (page creator)

My name is Abi, and I’m the only daughter of Jojo Catu - my dad, my rock, my world.

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I’ve created a Givealittle fund to help cover his medical needs, especially the radiation therapy that could ease some of his suffering.

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Update  4 August 2025

With a heavy heart, I share that my beloved father has passed away last night. Thank you all for the support, prayers, and donations, your kindness meant everything during this difficult time.

The funds raised will now help cover final medical bills and memorial expenses. We’re deeply grateful for every bit of help and love you've shown.

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Created by, and paying to a verified bank account of, Abigail Catu on behalf of My brave warrior dad, Jojo
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This campaign started on 25 Jul 2025 and ended on 11 Aug 2025.