Help Amari-Jade 🩷

My daughter was born on 07/11/2023. What I thought would be the best day of my life, turned out to be the worst. There were no red flags during pregnancy or even birth all the way up to when it was time to push. My midwife told me baby was getting stressed and that I had to push harder. I had been in labour for 10+ hours so I felt like I had nothing left in me, I even told her to “f***** pull her out!” No one intervened, I pushed her out myself and as a result she was born unexpectedly flat. Nothing could have prepared me for this! It took approximately 10 minutes to bring her back. This has resulted in life long disabilities; mainly severe HIE, spastic quad CP and epilepsy. Doctors/neurologists told me the damage was too much and basically to let her go because her life would have no quality. I chose to keep her by my side because at the end of the day, no one can tell me what her life is worth and I would die for her. The reason I’m doing this is to pay for a three week intensive therapy programme so that she can gain some mobility as she’s currently not able to move around on her own which breaks my heart daily. Imagine a doctor telling you your baby will never walk, talk or feed themselves then imagine what you would do to change that! We have privately raised $3000 already, and the total cost is $8,100. Any koha is appreciated. There’s also a raffle pinned on my Facebook page- Jahden Marie that is open to the public! NGĀ MIHI 🩷🩷