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Carter needs his Mum, Dad and big brother Riley, to be at his side while he undergoes his ongoing medical treatment

  • From Aimee & Reade 🤍

      28 August 2023
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    It is with the most crushing heartbreak that we announce the passing of our beautiful Carter.

    At 3:11am, 28th August, aged 17 months, Carter passed peacefully away in our arms.

    He fought for so long but his wee body was so tired and he couldn’t hold on any longer.

    Please respect that this is a horrific time for us and we are very likely to not respond to messages.

    He’s now living in the stars with his beloved Grandad keeping him safe 🤍

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    • 28/08/2023 by Sheryl

      Our deepest sympathy to you all. Our hearts go out to you Xx💙💙

  • June update

      17 June 2023
    Posted by: Aimee Davis
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    It’s been awhile since we did an update on our wee dude so thought I’d do a quick one.

    We’ve been home for nearly 7 weeks now, the longest stint we’ve had at home this entire year. Carter is doing okay, we still haven’t gained complete seizure control but he has managed to have a few runs of having no big seizures for 2-3 days at a time the longest run being 7 days! The apnoeas with his seizures haven’t been so bad either which is great.

    We had some scheduled visits with his paeds team a week ago where he had a repeat MRI, bloods etc. his MRI showed no significant damage or abnormalities (amazing considering the amount of oxygen issues and seizures he has had) so we are still hoping to find a genetic cause by getting even further genetic testing done. The keto diet does seem to be improving but we are needing to take it up another notch to really get his body responding. And there’s some adjustments to his meds we can still try.

    All in all there’s not a lot to report and we’re continuing to take it day by day and adjust to our new normal of Carter being home and the different challenges it faces.

    Our beautiful boy is happy, we’re getting lots of smiles and we’re so grateful to have each day with him

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  • He’s home!

      4 May 2023
    Posted by: Aimee Davis
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    We are so pleased to say on Tuesday May 2nd, Carter was given the all clear to return home. We still have a very hard road ahead as we hope to keep his seizures to a minimum. Unfortunately he is still having break through seizures every now and then but they are nowhere near as severe as they have been recently. As they are back to being relatively “normal” we are able to manage them from home. The doctors have added in another anti seizure medication to hopefully reduce his background seizure activity as well as help overall with his epilepsy. He’s still having to have a little extra oxygen while sleeping but for the most part is off it while awake which is so good.

    We are so so grateful for all of our medical friends on the paediatric ward but we hope it’s a long time before we see them again!

    For now we are happy to all be under one roof again and slowly we will return to our regular routine.

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  • Update 26/4/23

      26 April 2023
    Posted by: Aimee Davis
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    Well our wee warrior decided to show everyone who’s boss and is now seizure free (from the big ones at least) with the addition of the first medication on our list of things to try. This means we have had no apnea spells and he is able to rest and recover. He is still having issues with retaining his oxygen levels so still has a small amount of oxygen as a top up while his lungs recoup.

    His latest EEG today showed he is still having continuous background seizure activity which means the medication they had changed him to in January hasn’t worked and the only thing it did really was give him horrendous side effects. So we will now wean him off of it and hopefully add in another epilepsy medication to control the hidden seizures. These background seizures are the ones that have caused his severe development delays so the longer they go untreated the less chance he has of being able to develop normally.

    Considering last week we were discussing end of life care gaining control of the severe seizures is a huge step in the right direction, but as always we are taking it day by day.

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  • Update 21/4/23

      21 April 2023
    Posted by: Aimee Davis
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    Carters seizures continue to cause him extreme respiratory distress.

    While we have been managing this at home so far it is not fair on us to be doing so and in the event that Carter does not self resolve after a seizure as he usually would the emergency help he would need would not be readily available. So for the foreseeable future he will be staying in Dunedin hospital.

    The doctors are looking at options and trying different medications at our request to help stop or at the very least reduce the severity of his seizures so that he doesn’t stop breathing with each one.

    There is no guarantee of these medications working but there is no harm in trying and we want to exhaust all options possible.

    The keto diet requires on average a minimum of 3 months to work so our goal is to reduce the seizures as much as we can for now until the keto (hopefully) takes over as his main seizure control.

    In the interim we hope that he does not deteriorate mentally with the severe seizures he is having. We have discussed with the doctors that they are to do everything they can to save Carter’s life in the events that it would be required.

    If we are unable to gain seizure control and his condition is deteriorating we will then have to look into palliative options and make sure our beautiful boy is as comfortable as can be for as long as humanely possible.

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  • From Aimee&Reade

      17 April 2023
    Posted by: Aimee Davis
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    To everyone that has donated or offered help in other ways we are so unbelievably grateful for you all. We don’t like to ask for help but we are so overwhelmed by the outpouring of generosity to our wee family. We thank you all endlessly

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  • Thank You

      16 April 2023
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    Hey everyone. Thank you endlessly to everyone who has already donated! Aimee and Reade are eternally grateful to all of you.

    A wee update on Carter:

    Carter and Aimee were choppered down to dunedin again yesterday after he started having some serious breathing issues, which seems to have been caused by a Lower Respiratory infection which is possibly developing into Pneumonia. Carters Oxygen levels were extremely low and he was struggling to breathe on his own. His body couldn’t get enough oxygen so was trying to over compensate for the amount of CO2 in his system. Carter is now on high flow oxygen to bring the CO2 down and help get him enough oxygen as well as antibiotics to clear the chest infection. Aimee is reading all of your messages and seeing your donations as she stays with him in hospital and she appreciates all of you so much. Reade and Riley are still in Cromwell having some father and son quality time. A special mention for Aimees mother Dedri who helps with Riley so that either Reade or Aimee can continue to work while the other is in hospital with Carter. 💜

    Thank you for all of the love and well wishes

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