Dad's Showing his Stroke who's Boss

I want you to try something for me for a moment. If you’re wearing shoes with laces, undo one, and then try to do it up again with only one hand. Then try to put a sweatshirt on with one hand. Then try to do up the buckle on a belt with one hand. It’s difficult, trust me I know. And someone who knows this probably more than anyone, is my Dad.

On Christmas Day 2014, Dad suffered a freak stroke that would change his and his family’s lives more than we’d ever know.

He lost all movement in his left side, and all vision in his right eye. Three months in Middlemore hospital using a transfer machine to get him out of bed, led to another three months in a wheelchair, to twelve months using a stick, and now he’s finally back walking on his own.

This Christmas will mark four years, and it’s been a goal of his to walk a decent distance, and then to one day run one. Dad used to run marathons. His personal best is 2’32” and if you know anything about marathons you’ll know that’s bloody good! Right up until the stroke he was playing soccer twice a week and exercising almost every other day.

So, his day to walk will be on October 28th. Dad has registered to do the 5km Challenge in Auckland and he is walking to fundraise for his chosen charity - Laura Fergusson Rehabilitation.

This is where I come in. I am walking alongside Dad, but not for a charity. I’m walking for him. Dad is so selfless and would never put himself first, but in my eyes HE is the hero and HE is the one that deserves a bit of support thrown his way.

Over the past three and a half years we have received little to no support, especially financially. Who knew that a stroke isn’t classed as an accident, and therefore ACC never came to the party? Who knew that a stroke will eventually force you to close your own business, downsize houses and practically live week to week?

Every little bit counts and I would be SO grateful to anyone who can contribute! However if you would like to instead donate to Dad’s chosen programme, who I must add, helped him tremendously at the beginning of his rehabilitation journey, then follow the link below.

https://givealittle.co.nz/fundraiser/from-stroke-to-5km-walk-around-auckland