For Eru – Helping Our Whānau Repair, Recover & Rise

$3,435 donated
Given by 51 generous donors in around 5 months

Rebuilding what was damaged through the violence that took Eru from us.

Te Puke, Bay Of Plenty

On behalf of our whānau, I am creating this page to help us rebuild the damage and destruction that has affected my sons and our family leading up to, and on the day, my son Eru’s life was taken.

There were significant damages done to vehicles and property, not just on that day, but in previous altercations where my boys were left without the support, protection, or help they should have received. There are also repairs needed at my son’s home, where violence and chaos have left deep physical and emotional scars.

This Givealittle will go directly towards:

• Repairing vehicles damaged from previous ongoing incidents (including broken windows, dented panels, and other related damage)

• Fixing the damage done to Eru’s home (completing essential repairs to walls and windows, and repainting to restore safety and security for the whānau)

• Supporting our family through travel, court hearings and the long grieving process

• Helping my sons regain some stability after everything they have endured (covering living costs and time off work to support whānau recovery and ensure stability after trauma)

There were no insurance policies in place at the time.

As a mother, I’m doing everything I can to stand strong for Eru and for my boys. Our family has been through a trauma that no whanau should ever have to face, and any support, big or small means more than we can ever express.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping us rebuild what was broken, stand for our boy, and keep moving forward in his honour.

Justice for Eru.

Use of funds

The funds will be used for vehicle repairs, to address damage to my son’s home from previous incidents, and for travel to hearings and essential costs to support our whānau as we navigate the ongoing impact of losing Eru.

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Latest update

Thank you for the love and support 🤍  28 January 2026

To everyone who has donated, sent messages, or held our whānau in their thoughts, thank you from the bottom of my heart 🤍

The kindness, aroha, and support we have received has carried us through some incredibly heavy days. Every donation and message reminds us that we are not walking this journey alone, and that means more than I can ever properly put into words.

This has been an ongoing and painful road for our family, and your support helps us keep going during a time where grief, pressure, and uncertainty sit alongside one another. Please know that none of this is taken for granted. We feel the love behind every act of kindness.

From our whānau to yours, thank you for standing with us, for honouring Eru, and for holding space with such compassion.

Arohanui always 🤍

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Latest donations

Kelly
Kelly on 28 Jan 2026
Sending so much love and strength. What a handsome young man. Mum you are amazing. Keep fighting, because those weak cowards will have their day. You have so much support behind you. Such an amazing loving family ❤️
$20
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 27 Jan 2026
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Summer
Summer on 14 Jan 2026
My deepest condolences and healing blessings to you and your whanau.
$5
EAST HUNTER
EAST HUNTER on 06 Jan 2026
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Barbara
Barbara on 26 Dec 2025
Kia kaha!
$100

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Created by, and paying to a verified bank account of, Sonya Oakes on behalf of Sonya Oakes (Mum), Whare Oakes (Brother), Wharehuia Oakes (Eru's twin Brother), Clive Oakes Jr (Brother) and Adrian Oakes (Brother)
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This campaign started on 15 Nov 2025 and ends on 28 Apr 2026.