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Forest Aid - Helping Forest get a lifesaving operation

$15,725 of $90,000 goal
Given by 183 generous donors in 2 years

Fundraising to be able to get Forest a life-saving operation overseas

Hataitai, Wellington

My name is Forest, but lots of folk know me as Vashti.

I got sick 5 years ago. I woke in terrible rising pain. The emergency dept didn't manage the pain so I just lay very still for the better part of 3 months.

I had been managing the effects of a connective tissue disorder for 8 years prior. I was organising meetups for the local Ehlers Danlos Syndrome community and helping people find competent medical help. I was well versed in pushing through pain and finding solutions where other people said there were none. But there is no pushing through this. Any exertion puts me in bad pain and terrible dizziness. I was suddenly really unsteady. It was scary. I reached out to my community - one thing described all my symptoms: vascular compression syndromes. It took me a terrible 2½ years of hard work to reach an official diagnosis.

I have severe Nutcracker Syndrome and May Thurner Syndrome.

They are rare vascular compressions, and though they are debilitating, the vascular department has told me conclusively that there are no treatment options in this country.

My health is failing steadily, I lost 20% of my body weight and it is impacting my heart now too. I had a stroke-like episode 2 years in, that left me weak for months, with still ongoing neurological episodes. Though I have no means to, I need to seek help overseas. I need to raise over $90K – to pay for further testing, surgery, meds, follow up care, and travel. The surgery will treat my condition and restore my quality of life.

Joy Ratima's involvement (page creator)

Forest is my younger sibling

Funds will be paid to Forest's father Denis Friar

Use of funds

The funds will pay for surgery in Germany or Spain, follow up care, travel, kai and accommodation

Anything raised will go towards surgery and anything we do not raise we will look to other avenues to make up the difference

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Latest update

Caterpillar  9 August 2026

Thanks so much to everyone who came to my movie this week.

It was really lovely having everyone there.

A hardhitting and emotionally stirring movie, with such stunning moments, beautifully captured. Wholly recommended - Caterpillar. And it was her debut film!

Gave me intense memories of my teenagehood.

Many thanks to those who baked treats:) and to those who travelled. And all my heartfelt thanks for the many donations.

The film brought in a good amount, Feeling good and anxious to start speaking with surgeons

Next film in September ⭐

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Latest donations

Caroline
Caroline 8 hours ago
$120
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 07 Aug 2026
Hope you succeed, and soon
$80
Joy Ratima

Thank you so much, Forest

Joy Ratima
Kerryn
Kerryn on 05 Aug 2026
$25
Joy Ratima

Thank you, Forest

Joy Ratima
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 04 Aug 2026
$30
Joy Ratima

Thank you - Forest

Joy Ratima
Jennifer
Jennifer on 31 Jul 2026
$100
Joy Ratima

Wow I really appreciate it Forest

Joy Ratima

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This campaign started on 7 Jun 2024 and ends on 9 Nov 2026.