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Forest Aid - Helping Forest get a lifesaving operation

$14,875 of $90,000 goal
Given by 174 generous donors in over a year

Fundraising to be able to get Forest overseas for a life-saving operation

Hataitai, Wellington

My name is Forest, but lots of folk know me as Vashti.

I got sick over 4 years ago. I woke in terrible rising pain. The emergency department didn't manage the pain so I just lay very still for the better part of 3 months.

I had been managing the effects of a connective tissue disorder for 8 years. I was organising meetups for the local Ehlers Danlos Syndrome community and helping people find competent medical help. I was well versed in pushing through pain and finding solutions where other people said there were none. But there is no pushing through this. Any exertion puts me in bad pain and terrible dizziness. I was suddenly really unsteady. It was scary. I reached out to my community - one thing described all my symptoms: vascular compression syndromes. It took me a terrible 2½ years of hard work to reach an official diagnosis.

I have severe Nutcracker Syndrome and May Thurner Syndrome.

They are rare vascular compressions, and though they are debilitating, the vascular department has told me conclusively that there are no treatment options in this country.

My health is failing steadily, I lost 20% of my body weight and it is impacting my heart now too. I had a stroke-like episode that left me weak for months, with ongoing neurological episodes. Though I have no means to, I need to seek help overseas. I need to raise over $90K – to pay for surgery, meds, follow up care, travel, kai and accommodation. The surgery will treat my condition and restore my quality of life.

Joy Ratima's involvement (page creator)

Forest is my younger sibling

Funds will be paid to Forest's father Denis Friar

Use of funds

The funds will pay for surgery in Germany or Spain, follow up care, travel, kai and accommodation

Anything raised will go towards surgery and anything we do not raise we will look to other avenues to make up the difference

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Update  5 November 2025

Thank you for all the support and the kind messages, we are still fundraising and looking at different surgery options and appreciate all the help.

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Anne
Anne on 29 Nov 2025
Hey is there a way to set up regular donations? I'd like to set up a weekly automatic payment. Maybe an account number? Idk. Thinking of you anyway
$20
Joy Ratima

Thanks that's so kind :') i don't know what to say- yeah message me and i can give you the fundraising account number Really appreciated Forest

Joy Ratima
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Guest Donor on 06 Nov 2025
Hope this helps
$115
Joy Ratima

All the help. Thank you so much, we'll get there Forest

Joy Ratima
Michelle
Michelle on 06 Nov 2025
$30
Joy Ratima

Thank you my friend ☘️ Forest

Joy Ratima
Lucy
Lucy on 06 Nov 2025
Thinking of you
$35
Joy Ratima

Thank you :)

Joy Ratima
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 02 Oct 2025
$10
Joy Ratima

Thank you! Forest

Joy Ratima

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This campaign started on 7 Jun 2024 and ends on 4 Oct 2026.