Fundraising to be able to get Forest overseas for a life-saving operation
Hataitai, Wellington
My name is Forest, but lots of folk know me as Vashti.
I got sick over 4 years ago. I woke in terrible rising pain. The emergency department didn't manage the pain so I just lay very still for the better part of 3 months.
I had been managing the effects of a connective tissue disorder for 8 years. I was organising meetups for the local Ehlers Danlos Syndrome community and helping people find competent medical help. I was well versed in pushing through pain and finding solutions where other people said there were none. But there is no pushing through this. Any exertion puts me in bad pain and terrible dizziness. I was suddenly really unsteady. It was scary. I reached out to my community - one thing described all my symptoms: vascular compression syndromes. It took me a terrible 2½ years of hard work to reach an official diagnosis.
I have severe Nutcracker Syndrome and May Thurner Syndrome.
They are rare vascular compressions, and though they are debilitating, the vascular department has told me conclusively that there are no treatment options in this country.
My health is failing steadily, I lost 20% of my body weight and it is impacting my heart now too. I had a stroke-like episode that left me weak for months, with ongoing neurological episodes. Though I have no means to, I need to seek help overseas. I need to raise over $90K – to pay for surgery, meds, follow up care, travel, kai and accommodation. The surgery will treat my condition and restore my quality of life.
Forest is my younger sibling
Funds will be paid to Forest's father Denis Friar
The funds will pay for surgery in Germany or Spain, follow up care, travel, kai and accommodation
Anything raised will go towards surgery and anything we do not raise we will look to other avenues to make up the difference
Update 5 November 2025
Thank you for all the support and the kind messages, we are still fundraising and looking at different surgery options and appreciate all the help.
Thanks that's so kind :') i don't know what to say- yeah message me and i can give you the fundraising account number Really appreciated Forest
All the help. Thank you so much, we'll get there Forest
Thank you my friend ☘️ Forest
Thank you :)
Thank you! Forest
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