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Forest Aid - Helping Forest get a lifesaving operation

$16,035 of $90,000 goal
Given by 190 generous donors in 2 years

Fundraising to be able to get Forest a life-saving operation overseas

Hataitai, Wellington

My name is Forest, but lots of folk know me as Vashti.

I got sick 5 years ago. I woke in terrible rising pain. The emergency dept didn't manage the pain so I just lay very still for the better part of 3 months.

I had been managing the effects of a connective tissue disorder for 8 years prior. I was organising meetups for the local Ehlers Danlos Syndrome community and helping people find competent medical help. I was well versed in pushing through pain and finding solutions where other people said there were none. But there is no pushing through this. Any exertion puts me in bad pain and terrible dizziness. I was suddenly really unsteady. It was scary. I reached out to my community - one thing described all my symptoms: vascular compression syndromes. It took me a terrible 2½ years of hard work to reach an official diagnosis.

I have severe Nutcracker Syndrome and May Thurner Syndrome.

They are rare vascular compressions, and though they are debilitating, the vascular department has told me conclusively that there are no treatment options in this country.

My health is failing steadily, I lost 20% of my body weight and it is impacting my heart now too. I had a stroke-like episode 2 years in, that left me weak for months, with still ongoing neurological episodes. Though I have no means to, I need to seek help overseas. I need to raise over $90K – to pay for further testing, surgery, meds, follow up care, and travel. The surgery will treat my condition and restore my quality of life.

Joy Ratima's involvement (page creator)

Forest is my younger sibling

Funds will be paid to Forest's father Denis Friar

Use of funds

The funds will pay for surgery in Germany or Spain, follow up care, travel, kai and accommodation

Anything raised will go towards surgery and anything we do not raise we will look to other avenues to make up the difference

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Latest update

Klara and the Sun fundraising screening coming up ☀️  7 November 2026

Hey everyone,

I'm excited to be holding another fundraising screening - Klara and the Sun. It's an interesting dystopian tale, adapted with the author's blessing for the screen by Taika Waititi.

tinyurl.com/klara-sun

I'm holding it on the 16th of November, at 5.45pm. Hope to see many of you there! Advertising it has been hard this time as I have been really struggling to eat for the last two months, with causes serious fatigue.

Wish me luck in any which way

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Sarah
Sarah 4 days ago
Sending aroha old friend...
$20
Joy Ratima

Aw thank you so much! I've actually been meaning to reach out and say hi - hope you and yours are doing really well Forest Vashti

Joy Ratima
Sally
Sally on 02 Nov 2026
Good luck on your journey
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Joy Ratima

Thank you so much ♡

Joy Ratima
Guest Donor
Guest Donor on 24 Oct 2026
$50
Joy Ratima

Thanks you're so lovely, really appreciate it Forest

Joy Ratima
Beans On Toast
Beans On Toast on 17 Oct 2026
best of luck x i had the same surgery in 2024 in germany. you’re not alone x feel free to reach out on fb
$10
Joy Ratima

Oh thank you! Yeah we're connected in some little group somewhere I think - thank you for reaching out <3 Forest

Joy Ratima
Ella
Ella on 12 Oct 2026
$10
Joy Ratima

Thank you, I really appreciate it Forest

Joy Ratima

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This campaign started on 7 Jun 2024 and ends on 7 Feb 2027.