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Heavy Funeral cost weighs on young families shoulders

$600 of $15,000 goal
Given by 10 generous donors in 9 weeks

The sudden passing of My 30 year old, older brother who died 10 days before the 9 year anniversary, of the passing of our dear mother.

Canterbury

My beloved brother Aaron Paula was found unresponsive on Thursday morning the 2nd of October 2025. He had only just celebrated his 30th birthday in Auckland on Monday,

He had phoned me and his 5 year old nephew on the Wednesday afternoon before he was found dead the following morning,

We spoke about what he was getting his nephew for his upcoming birthday and about what he was doing with his life and as always he sounded positive and happy. We spoke so often i miss him sorely.

He died 10 days before the 9 year Anniversary of our mothers death. who also died suddenly at 57. It has been such a hard time for us bringing Aaron home from Auckland and burying him near our mum.

The burden of the funeral bill is devastating to my little family and my father. it is enormous and so tragically unexpected. from 2 funeral directors. Auckland and here in the south island, . if you would like to donate please do. I will be so grateful for anything towards his funeral costs. thank-you for reading

Use of funds

The 2 Funeral directors Auckland $12000, and here in the south island $8500

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Miss G
Miss G on 20 Oct 2025
Thinking of you and your family Melanie.
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Mel Conroy

Thank you so much

Mel Conroy
Saturn
Saturn on 20 Oct 2025
I am very sorry for your sudden loss & of course all the trauma that follows with it. I notice in your gallery you are seated next to one of my great uncles, Reggie, I would like to provide you a token donation on behalf of the Smallridge Family in Timaru.
$100
Mel Conroy

Thank you that is so very kind

Mel Conroy
Sally
Sally on 19 Oct 2025
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Mel Conroy

Thank-you very much Sally

Mel Conroy
Georgina
Georgina on 18 Oct 2025
Thinking of you Melanie
$20
Mel Conroy

Thank-you so much Georgina

Mel Conroy
Amy Richardson
Amy Richardson on 18 Oct 2025
$50
Mel Conroy

thank-you Amy

Mel Conroy

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This campaign started on 16 Oct 2025 and ends on 16 Jan 2026.