Give a little for the Gillespies

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Given by 33 generous donors in around 3 months

Support Grant and his family as he goes through this tragic journey with pancreatic cancer.

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On the 11th of June, Grant (53), received a phone call from his doctor late at night advising him to get to hospital. A routine blood check had revealed Grant's body was struggling. So on the 12th of June, Grant checked himself into Middlemore hospital. It has been a very frustrating journey to say the least. They found a mass on his pancreas and he ended up with pancreatitis. A stent was put into the bile duct (potentially failed), and multiple failed biopsy attempts. He has been in and out of hospital, released for day trips home and weekends. A painful 7 weeks later they managed to take a successful biopsy last week and confirmed it is pancreatic cancer.

Unfortunately during this time his health has deteriorated and keeping food down has become a struggle. Grant is back in hospital and will get an MRI to see if the lumps they have found on his liver are metastasis or not and will also put an external drain into his liver to help it drain. They will also try to insert a new stent.

Next week we hope to hear if surgery to remove the main tumor is an option.

This is all very unsettling times for everyone close to Grant. Min (wife), Hayley (daughter) and Ryland (grandson) are spending as much time as possible with him.

Grant is no longer able to work, and Min is currently on reduced hours. Hayley needs to stop work and potentially put her studies on hold.

I would love to raise money to help cover costs and relieve some of the stress associated with this devastating journey.

Kristy Avery's involvement (page creator)

I am Grant's first wife, and now best friend. I have known him for 20 years and our bond is one filled with laughter, frustration and a deep sense of understanding.

Use of funds

Through this page it is my hope to support Min and Hayley with much needed time off work. Support Hayley with the many trips up from her home in Hamilton. And hopefully get Grant and Min back to 90 mile beach and maybe a few short adventures if possible.

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Latest update

The next step of Grant's journey   17 September 2025

We would like to say a huge thank you to everyone who has been supporting us through the last very stressful 3 months. Grant is now at home following multiple medical complications which have meant numerous hospital admissions and eventually a gastric bypass surgery to allow him to eat again.

Today, Grant starts a very aggressive chemo protocol with the aim to shrink the tumour to a size that could hopefully be resectable. This will be a tough journey, but the continued support brings so much comfort.

We appreciate those who have so generously contributed to Grants Givealittle. We purchased a Lazyboy for Grants comfort as he recovers from surgery and heads into chemo with all the likely side effects. The financial assistance after his sudden loss of income has been immensely helpful, as Grant is unable to work now and for the foreseeable future. The money goes toward petrol and hospital parking, food on the go, special dietary requirements (for Grant), endless coffees (for Min). Petrol, parking, and missed work (for Hayley).

We really appreciate everyone's love and care for us along with the practical help we have recieved.

We could not be doing this without our awesome village.

Arohanui xox

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Latest donations

Gill
Gill on 16 Sep 2025
$35
Kristy Avery

Thank you Gill.

Kristy Avery
Neesha
Neesha on 15 Sep 2025
Sending you lots of love always! You've got this Grant! Love Neesh and Keaton x
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Kristy Avery

Thank you Neesh and Keaton.

Kristy Avery
Rita
Rita on 21 Aug 2025
Thinking of you both Min, sorry to hear you and Grant are going through this xx
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Kristy Avery

Thank you Rita.

Kristy Avery
Peter
Peter on 15 Aug 2025
I don’t have the right words for what you are going through, but I want you to know this — you are not facing this alone. You have a family who loves you, and a family who will walk beside you every step of the way. We can’t control everything that happens, but we can control how we face it — together, with courage, love, and even moments of laughter when we need them most. Stay strong and positive brother. Love Peter Leonie Sam & Caitlin
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Kristy Avery

Gosh Peter, Leonie, Caitlin and Sam! Your donation is beyond generous! And your loving supportive words - I know it has blown your bro away. The support he is feeling helps so much! Thank you!

Kristy Avery
Zoe
Zoe on 12 Aug 2025
Love and thoughts are with you both, love Z,N,J and J xx
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Kristy Avery

Thank you all so much.

Kristy Avery

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This campaign started on 6 Aug 2025 and ended on 6 Nov 2025.