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Treasure Chest - A deep sea exploration in metaphor.

  • WE DID IT!!!

      12 January 2023

    We did it fam!! 🥳🥳🥳

    The putea for surgery is now a wrap!!! 💥💥

    Deep gratitude for all of you who contributed via sharing of posts, $, advocacy. What a humbling crew...

    Thanks so much to my Mum for going without blinds on your new whare and the trade in on your car after a lifetime of hard work to tip the scales in my favour. (She is making up the difference to what you see here).

    Thank you to my wifey for lifey Lesina and the multiple ways you support and love me, and how you were weirded out when you first saw the baps cos you already knew me and loved me for my true self. Looking forward to some time off with you.

    Thanks and deep gratitude and respect to Miriam for your relentless love, skin in the game, and advocacy in putting the ally in both personally and professionally - you HELLA showed up.

    To those who don't have sweet f-all but gave out of that kete, you are what bring the super deep feels to this hikoi - as it is first and foremost about showing up to our own humanity and actioning that. It is not my desire anyone should put themselves in hardship for me. I also know sometimes we feel strongly about things in a way that we are prepared to pay the cost. Skin in the game is a nuanced journey, but thank you my homies who gave from little. I have definitely sent out the potent prayers for you to be blessed beyond measure - afterall, the first will be last and the last will be first - one day...

    And thank you everyone else who gave from their overflow, who showed up to something beyond yourself - we all need each other...

    So now it's down to me to try and get to the size required (although that is some hefty outdated medical kaka) and will keep you posted. Surgicals are on Feb 21st.

    Onward. 🙏🏼💚

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  • Wow...

      29 December 2022

    I just want to express how deeply moved, relieved and encouraged I am by all of you who have shown up in your own generosity and humanity to tautoko me on this full

    on hikoi... The best thing about this isn't the putea (although is kinda the point of a givealittle), but knowing that our trans/genderdiverse/takatāpui whānaunga have folks out there who are willing to show up to the realness, dignity and equity of our existence, and how that takes reckoning with the expansiveness within oneself to mihi to that within another - a challenging thing to do in a world of binary thinking and avalanches of fear...

    So thank you for bearing the Light. It is an easy yoke to be, albeit in challenging surroundings... Let us continue to be free in the spacious place of delight that our Creator has made for us...

    Ngā mihi arohanui 🏔️⚓️💚

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  • 2months to go...

      29 December 2022

    Kia ora whānau.

    Ngā mihi aroha for all the generosity you have shown me this year. 2 months to go and getting there towards the line. Just wanted to send some love to those who have donated and shared. It feels so important that our trans population is uplifted right now when there is such a global assault on our being. Thank you for leading with love.

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  • Update

      13 June 2022

    Hey Fam

    So my Mum is giving me her old car to sell which is a relief, because at this point it was feeling all a bit bleak. It will cover hopefully at least 10K. So

    with that we're just over half way there!

    I'm going with a surgeon in Christchurch who is apparently the cheapest but lucky for me, also has the desired results with a healing process that resonates.

    Please keep sharing. I was going to go to Australia but the WPATH process ended up making it more expensive in the long run.

    Ngā mihi

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