Grandma given a sh#t sandwic...F#@k U CANCER!!

This is our mum,grandma,wife,best friend,aunty & sister..sandra. July 15th mum will be 65 and should be retiring to a life of lesure....3 weeks ago mum ended up in emergancy surgary to have tissue removed from her spine which could have paralized her, spread from a massive tumor on her back..after surgary we were hit with the news nobody wants to hear..its cancer!! Which had also destroyed 2 whole rib bones leaving mum with 2 metal poles holding her spine up. After months of drs visits and no answers..finally a ct &mri revealled the reason for emergancy surgary..this week we find out its stage 4 lung cancer,a rare type that a small percentage of non-smokers get. As a family unit we couldnt express how broken we are. The medication mum will start has a high shrink percentage but if it fails the next step is $10,000 a month for a different pill. While going through these motions mums had to deal with an unfortunate situation which has now landed her a big ACC bill. My sister,brother inlaw and nephews live a few hours away and i would like to help accomodate petrol costs for them to come down as often as the can to spend time with mum as everyday is precious. I want to help clear whatever bills mum&dad may have,take the slack off groceries,small home modifications to keep mum warm and for dad to be able to be at home instead of working most days. Mum is the kindest and most loving person who would give and do anything to help anyone in anyway possible