Help our family to pay a large hospital bill after my mum suffered an unexpected stroke.
Christchurch, Canterbury
On the 3rd of December 2023 my mother Prabha suffered an unexpected stroke and spent 1 1/2 weeks in Christchurch hospital, and then 6 weeks rehabilitating in Burwood hospital before coming home. She unfortunately had to spend her 80th birthday in bed at Christchurch hospital. Since December she has worked incredibly hard to overcome the effects of the stroke which has left her unable to walk without support and supervision. She has had to learn how to feed herself again and has lost the ability to simple daily tasks like prepare her own food and go to the bathroom by herself.
My mother was born in Fiji and is technically a citizen of the USA, but has no permanent home due to unforeseen circumstances so for many years she bounced between families in Australia, Fiji, and NZ. Since April 2021 she has been living with me on an extended visitor's visa, but I am an NZ citizen and the end goal is for my mum to to be a permanent resident here so she can have some stability and a place to call home.
Because she isn't a permanent resident yet, 3 weeks ago we received an enormous bill for her time spent in hospital, which has totalled $95,365. I have no regrets about getting treatment for my mum as she deserves to continue living a life with some independence, but it has come at a cost that we unfortunately cannot afford alone.
We are asking for any help that people can offer to put towards this huge bill, your generosity will be greatly appreciated by myself and my whole family.
Prabha is my mother who has lived with me and my family full time since 2021, and I have been caring for her since she came home from the hospital.
The funds will go directly towards paying the hospital bill.
Mum's progress 19 April 2024
Mum has been hitting many small milestones in her recovery over the last couple of months. She can use both hands to feed herself, rinses her own dishes after every meal, helps to fold the laundry, uses her walker unsupervised, and even her speech has improved.
My family and I have been overwhelmed by the generous support we have received since starting this page, and while there is still so far to go we are grateful for the donations that have been given so far. We would appreciate it very much if you can all continue to share this page around to anyone else who may be able to help.
We greatly appreciate your generous donation Mama and family.
We greatly appreciate your generous donation, thanks very much.
Thanks for your donation, greatly appreciated.
We greatly appreciate your generous donation Nikhil. Thanks very much.
We kindly appreciate your help. Thanks very much
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