Help Abby fight and get home!!

Closed Cause page created in the Health category by Sophie Hartley for "Abby Hartley-our mother and wife"

  • $237,077.00 donated
  • 4,359 generous donors
  • Final Update from the Hartleys x     25 September 2018

    Hi everyone,

    Firstly we would once again, say thank you to everyone who has followed, donated, shared and commented on our journey with mum. We couldn’t have got as far as we did without all of the amazing support from everyone.

    We have been doing a lot of thinking over the weekend on all of our costs and funds on give a little we raised.

    After a lot of calculations we have worked out that we have $50,000 left from all of the generous donations.

    We have decided as a family that we would like to split and donate the remaining money to various charities/organizations. Time and thought has gone into this and we decided to go with charities that were close to mums heart and ours.

    One organization we are very excited to donate to is..

    https://www.facebook.com/children.of.the.world.school/

    Dee is a Scottish lady living in Bali, who heard about our families situation and she helped us out in the very difficult time. Dee runs a school in Badung, Bali, for kids that have been rescued from very traumatic pasts. Dee and the kids invited dad and Toby to join them for a game of football (soccer) which they happily took up. It was a very well needed break and after seeing all of these kids with such positive attitudes gave them a good boost to carry on for the remaining time. Our donation will be going towards a few renovations for the school and basic essentials to keep Dee’s school running.

    Secondly, we are also donating to the mental health foundation- https://www.mentalhealth.org.nz/

    As mum suffered from mental health it was something that was very close to her heart. She was always willing to help anyone and she made sure mental health was known and recognized.

    Finally we are making a donation to the Starship hospital in Auckland- https://www.starship.org.nz/

    Mum adored kids and we know she would really love for a portion of this money to go towards kids in need. The donation will go towards new technology and medical equipment to save and extend lives, vital research to ensure better outcomes, boosted family support, staff training and community outreach projects to keep children out of hospital.

    From here on out, we are trying to get back into a bit of normality and get everything back on track, it’s what mum would’ve wanted. I can almost hear her now shouting at me for not keeping on top of washing or having takeaways when we can’t be bothered to cook. Woops. This will probably be my last post as this page closes at the end of this month but it has been a pleasure waking up in the morning and reading all of your lovely comments and feeling all the love so thank you!!

    All the best to each and every one of you!

    Sophie, Richard and Toby Hartley xx

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  • Rest easy mum x     21 September 2018

    Hi everyone,

    Apologies for not updating everyone in a while. Things have been pretty crazy for us all as i'm sure you can imagine.

    On Monday the 17th September we held a very beautiful service to send mum onto wherever she may be now, we know she would've loved it. Many thanks to everyone who attended.

    Thank you for all the lovely messages and condolences. I will try and reply to everyone when I can.

    Much love,

    The Hartley's x

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  • Rest easy Mum ❤️     11 September 2018

    Hi everyone,

    On Sunday morning 8:55am Bali time mum let go after fighting and fighting a very long battle. Dad and Toby were by mums side until her last breath. Mum is at peace now and we are extremely grateful for the many years of joy and love mum bought us. She will forever be held in our memories and hearts and without a doubt she will make her presence known when she is watching over us.

    We did everything we could and had to do to help mum fight and get her home

    We would like to thank everyone for all of your love and support, it has made everything that little bit easier.

    We have no bad feelings towards the government and we understand their decision to not assist us with getting mum home.

    We would like to ask everyone to respect our privacy and let us grieve. We will not be answering any questions from the media.

    The Hartleys ❤️

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  • Friday 7th September     07 September 2018

    Selamat pagi / Selamat sore

    Good morning / good afternoon.

    Not much has changed have the past few days with mums condition. Today mum is still very stable except for a temperature being a bit up and down but this is not unusual. Her WBC are a bit low being at 1,900 but this isn’t alarming. Apart from that every other stat hasn’t changed much.

    The biggest thing we have been waiting for is Mums stool samples. These stool samples have been the main delay for mums return home. We needed 3 stool samples coming back negative for dysentery. 2 stool samples were taken yesterday 1 being in the morning and 1 being in the afternoon. Both of these stool samples came back negative. This was very exciting news and meant we only needed 1 more clear stool sample to give mum the all clear. This morning we came in with our hopes up high to see mum has produced the last stool sample which came back negative. This is awesome news and this means mum has the all clear to fly.

    With mum being all clear to fly it is now up to our Evac team to get mum home :D

    Thank you everyone for your support ❤️

    The Hartleys.

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  • Explaining ourselves because of media.. AGAIN     05 September 2018

    Hey all,

    Me again, sadly once again explaining ourselves over recent media attention because apparently we don’t have enough on our plate.

    The insurance company has finally been named.. COVER MORE. Not by us but by someone from one of the Balinese hospital’s mum has been at, which we find rather disgusting as that is a breach of our privacy, but that’s neither here nor there.

    We kept the name of the insurance company out of this purely for this reason, NEGATIVE MEDIA ATTENTION. Mum did all the bookings for hers and dads trip to Bali including the insurance. The information we had at the time of making the claim was unclear to us as mum was the one who took the policy out and due to being in a coma was unable to provide of having or not having declared anything at the time of booking the insurance.

    When we made this givealittle page we stated that insurance declined our claim because it was related to a pre-existing medical condition hence why we needed to raise the money. So we did state that the decline of the claim was due to a pre-existing medical condition, no truth was hidden there.

    I do not believe we have mislead anyone of the public or the insurers whilst this horrible situation of ours has been going on. We have tried to be transparent from the start.

    We are very disappointed that a certain media outlet was chasing a different angle of our story and has gone above and beyond to get the name of the insurance company purely for negative media attention. But hey, congratulations to them cause that’s bound to make a good story for them right? Doesn’t matter about the extra stress it puts on us and the insurance company, I’m not sure they understand that we’re human too.

    So yes, maybe mum didn’t declare a pre-existing medical condition, but everyone makes mistakes, very unfortunately for us it’s a very expensive, stressful and horrendous mistake.

    At the end of the day, I personally don’t care what the media has to say or anyone with their negative comments, my mum is STILL lying in a hospital bed in Bali and fighting problem after problem and anyone in our position without a doubt would have done the same thing. I am extremely proud of how myself and my family have handled everything and I would like to, once again, thank everyone so much for all your support and messages!

    A couple of things I would like everyone to take from our experience is:

    1- READ THE FINE PRINT ON EVERYTHING

    2- If your ever in the position where you need help from the media, use 2 or 3 known sources and stick with them, they’ll be on your side.

    3- Don’t believe EVERYTHING you see in the media, Chinese whispers happen a lot and things get twisted or made up in the process

    4- Pick up your phone right now and call your mum, dad or siblings and tell them you love them.

    5- My parents have always said “Never go to bed on an argument” this is pretty irrelevant but I hope people read this and take it in.

    I really hope this is my last update regarding negative media attention but hey if it isn’t I think that everyone following our story through this page trust us and that is all I care about.

    Thank you once again!

    Sophie :)

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  • Tuesday 4th September     04 September 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    Yesterday was not a good day for Mum but today she has been a bit more stable.

    Mums WBC have dropped a little bit from yesterday and are now 7,500. Mums blood pressure has been a bit more stable today ranging between 120/75 to 130/80. Mums temperature has been good today at 37.0 and has not needed the cooling blanket at all today. Since yesterday Mum has not had anymore seizures and has been given anti-seizure medication. Doctor do not know why Mum had these mild seizures but could be down to one of Mums amitriptyline. Which has now been stopped. Mum has also been taken off sedation again and is a bit more alert with movement in her eyes. As far as getting her Home Mum needs to have 3 clear stool results over a period of 3 days. Doctors are finding it hard to test her stool results as Mum has not had any bowel movements.

    We are still working really hard to get Mum home ASAP.

    Apologies for the updates at strange times, we don't have much information until the doctor comes around :)

    Thank you once again for your love and support. ❤️

    - The Hartley's x

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  • Monday 3rd September     03 September 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    As from today Mums WBC have gone up again to 13,000 but this is not alarming since her WBC have not been stable for the past 3 days going up and down. As for mums temperature it hasn’t been so good today. Mums temperature has shot up to 37.8 so she has had the cooling blanket on for most of the day. Even with the cooling blanket mums temperature has stayed between 37.5 to 37.8. We are also struggling with high blood pressure with highs of 198/115 and this has caused Mum to have face convulsions. To prevent further convulsions and more stress the doctor has made a decision to give Mum sedation to calm her down.

    We have been working very hard to get Mum home ASAP but now have to wait for some results. Doctors have suspected Mum might have dysentery and this means we have to wait for 3 clear stool samples. Once we have the 3 clear stool samples we will hopefully have the all clear for Mum to fly home. We cannot say how long it will take to get these clear samples.

    We are still working really hard to get Mum home ASAP.

    Thank you once again for your love and support. ❤️

    - The Hartleys

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  • Update regarding latest news coverage     03 September 2018

    Hi everyone,

    I’m not sure why I feel the need to clarify this but I feel as though people are having a fielday with the latest news on the fact that a generous “concerned New Zealander” has paid for my mum’s MEDEVAC. This post is for all the generous people that have donated to our give a little page and followed our story, as I feel you have the right to know that your donations have gone towards what we promised they would- medical bills and MEDEVAC. All you negative Nancy’s out there feel free to have a read and put your minds at ease also.

    This is in fact true but not all facts were clearly stated. The costs of the MEDEVAC were covered so that we could get the ball rolling on getting mum on her way home. I’m not sure how often people have tried to rack together 170k for an emergency flight plus 100k for medical bills but as I’m sure you can all imagine it is not easy and requires a lot of time consuming paperwork. Therefore we will be paying back this generous person once we have the funds from our re-mortgage and the funds from this page has been released.

    Mum’s condition is very up and down and we are facing some more challenges regarding getting her home but thanks to all of you we have the certainty that mum will be able to come home to be with her family and friends and hopefully boost her recovery.

    If anyone has any questions regarding this please don’t hesitate to drop a question and I will answer it as soon as I can. We will be staying away from the media for now as facts seem to get lost in the process.

    On a positive note: I promise the minute mum is on her way back to New Zealand everyone who is following our story on here will be the firsts to know and I truly can’t wait to write that post :)

    Thank you to everyone who has followed mum and our story and of course everyone who has donated and shared our story. We cannot thank you enough!

    Regards

    Sophie x

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  • Sunday 2nd September     02 September 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    Apologies for the lack of updates the past couple of days.

    Mum has been relatively stable the past 2 days with mild changes. Mums WBC have now gone back down to 9,000 from 24,000. This is good but not ideal as they have been fluctuating the past couple of days. Mums temperature has been a bit up and down also with a low at 36.6 and highs of 38.0. Mums sodium levels are now clearing up which is good because this is a prime factor of getting her to fly home. Mum has had mild physio with movements in her arms and feet pointing up. Mum is also more alert giving us more blinks and slight movement with her eyes.

    We are still working really hard to get Mum home ASAP.

    Thank you once again for your love and support, we read every one of your comments and it's such a big boost for us all seeing the kind messages ❤️

    - The Hartley's x

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  • Thursday 30th August     30 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    Mums WBC have gone up again from 16,500 to 24,000. This as a little alarming but not a shock to us. Over the past few days her WBC have been increasing and this is not good because this is a sign that Mums antibiotics aren’t doing their job as much as we would like. On a more positive note Mums temperature has been very stable today being at 36.0 to 36.6 throughout the day. This means that Mum has not needed the cooling blanket throughout the day. Also Mums sodium levels are stable staying at 140. Mum had mild physio today with movement in the arms and change of postion with her legs.

    Thank you once again for your love and support. ❤️

    - The Hartleys

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  • Update on funds     30 August 2018

    Hi everyone.

    There has been a lot of confusion around the funding and how much we are raising.

    As mum has been in hospital since the 1st of August our hospital bills have stacked up hugely due to the treatment mum has required- we are looking at roughly $100,000 by the time we can get her out and home.

    We have had a latest quote from the EVAC company for $168,000 so that brings us up to $268,000.

    Also this page has a 5% fee of all donations.

    We will be coming up with the remainder and have stopped donations now.

    The page will still be open for everyone who is following mums journey and we will be sure to keep posting on how she is doing.

    I hope this has made things clear for everyone and thank you to everyone who has donated so far, if we could thank you all personally we most definitely would 😊

    The Hartleys ❤️

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  • Wednesday 29th August      29 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    I know most of you have seen the article s and the interviews on the news and I just wanted to thank everyone that had shared and got the word out so that was all possible.

    As far as Mum goes she has been stable today. Except a few things. Mums WBC have gone up from 13,500 to 16,500 which is not good. This is not good since this means the antibiotics are slowly wearing off. Her sodium levels are stable to at 140 which is not to high and not to low. This is good because it puts the brain more at ease. Mum has had a cooling blanket on most of the day but from 12pm till now she does not have it on. She has had very mild physio today with movement in here arms and shoulders. The Doctor has got back to us with the CT scan saying hopefully Friday.

    Just wanted to say a massive thank you to everyone with each little donation and each little share. Every little bit matters and we would be this far without everyone’s support.

    Thank you

    The Hartleys. ❤️

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  • Tuesday 28th August     29 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    It was a good start this morning for us here in Bali. Previuosly the Doctor will come into see Abby and say “ohh Abby you make me sad” once looking at her progress but this morning he came in saying “ohh Abby you make me happy”. This was good to hear and put smiles on our faces.

    Mum has been stable today with her WBC coming down ever so slightly from 14,000 to 13,500. Mums sodium levels have also come down a little which the doctor is happy with. This is good since the sodium levels effect Mums brain if these are to high. Mums temperature has not been so good so throughout the day she has had her cooling blanket on her to keep her temperature at ease. This also means that Mum could not have Physio today as this could risk her temperature to increase and blood pressure dropping.

    Thank you once again for your love and support. We are so close to bringing mum home 💕

    - The Hartleys

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  • Monday 27th August     27 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    Mum is still fighting away at this infection but her White blood cells have increased to 13,500. This means the antibiotics are fighting the infection but not as well as we would like. She has been the mix of three antibiotics for 7 days and the Doctor says we are running out of time for her to respond to these antibiotics. Mums sodium levels have gone up which is not good for the brain and if they give her more fluids to combat this it could potentionally effect her lungs.

    As you are all aware the most important thing right now is to get Mum home. This is all very important to us because she deserves to back home surrounded by her loved ones. We are doing everything we can to raise the funds so we can make this happen.

    Just wanted to thank everyone for your drive to help us trying to reach our goal of getting Mum home.

    Thank you once again for your love and support. ❤️

    - The Hartleys

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  • Saturday 25th August     25 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    Yesterday we got some good news from the Doctor as he said Abby would be able to fly home at 40% oxygen from the respirator and with all her obs stable. This was uplifting news and we started to get the ball rolling by organising Abby to fly home commercially at $52-$60k, this would include using 9-10 seats for Abby on a stretcher, equipment required and a doctor and nurse. After re-mortgaging we would just be able to come up with this money but the tables have now turned as this morning when we arrived Abby’s oxygen levels were back up to 100% and her blood pressure isn’t as stable as we would like, therefore flying Abby commercially is very much out of the picture for a fair while.

    Our only options now are to wait it out over here in Bali- with medical bills stacking up or to get an EVAC which will be $100k+ and could be done in Abby’s condition.

    If anyone has any ideas of how we could possibly raise a little to assist us with the costs for an EVAC it would be a very big help.

    Also what we need is to get Abby awake, we have been playing all the voice recordings and videos sent by all those close to her and we are getting some response so please keep them coming, we understand it feels a bit strange talking into a phone but we believe it is helping Abby a lot. Feel free to private message anything to any one of us and we can play them to her.

    We look forward to hearing ideas and voice recordings, everyone has been such a great help and we are so extremely grateful for all your love and support.

    -The Hartley’s ❤️

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  • Thursday 23rd August     23 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    Her WBC have come down from 14,000 down 9,900 which means the antibiotics are working for now. She has had very little physio today but doctor said she would have a full physio tomorrow involving getting her up and sitting on the side of the bed. Her temperature is on stable when she has the cooling blanket on her. Mums blood pressure is good being 141/77 and they have taken her off of medication to keep her blood pressure stable. Very minimal response coming from Mum but she occasionally opens her eyes and looks around.

    Thank you everyone for your love and support. ❤️

    - The Hartleys

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  • Wednesday 22nd August     22 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon to all.

    Things are looking better then they did yesterday. The course of Antibiotics that were given yesterday have made small improvements. Last night her white blood cells shot up to 40,000 which was very alarming. This morning her WBC have gone down to 14,000. This is good but her far from being out of the woods. After 2 more days of these antibiotics we need to get her moving and more active. If we do not get her moving and active Mum is in risk of getting more infections. No dialysis is needed today to filter her blood but is there for back up. Her blood pressure was very unstable last night with number ranging from lows of 75/38 and highs of 115/70 but this morning her blood pressure is 143/71 which is good. So in a nut shell we are testing her limits of medication in what she can achieve with minimal support. After her change of conditions Mum is no where near stable enough to fly anywhere.

    Thank you everyone for your love and support. ❤️

    - The Hartleys

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  • Tuesday 21st August      21 August 2018

    Update to all.

    A bit of a change from yesterday. Mum has had no physio today due to her blood pressure being to low. This is due to the infection that Mum is fighting. The antibiotics we have been using have become immune to the infection. Tonight doctors will give mum a course of a combination of 3 different antibiotics, unfortunately that is the final course they can give her. She is currently stable but only with the support of medication to keep her blood pressure up. She is not stable enough to be moved at all. We will find out some time tomorrow if these new antibiotics are fighting this infection.

    Mum is a strong lady and she is fighting for her life at the moment.

    Thank you everyone for your support so far. ❤️

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  • Monday 20th August     20 August 2018

    Update to All.

    All stats are stable, except for her temperature is a bit up and down. With an high of 39.4 and a low of 36.5. Her Lungs, kidneys and the liver are all presenting us with no problems and have been given the all clear so far from the doctor. But now Abby has an infection of some sort which we cannot find the source of. She has been on antibiotics for 14 days now and has not been responding to this medication. After 7 days of antibiotics your body starts to become immune to the treatment and this is what seems to have happened with Abby. The next step for finding the source of infection is to proceed with an MRI scan. Previously her breathing pressure has been at 8 but slowly reduced over 3 days to 3. We need this to be at 0 or below to enable Abby to fly home commercial with assistance. Even with mild physio she is still in a deep coma after 5 days without sedation. Time will tell when Abby will come out of a coma.

    Thank you everyone for your amazing support. ❤️

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  • Saturday 18th August      18 August 2018

    Update to All.

    All stats are very stable at the moment with her temperature coming down to 37.3. She was sat up right for a bit and has had mild physio today with movements in her arms and legs. She is still needing the ventilator with 40% oxygen and 8% pressure. She is breathing well but she has minimal support with the ventilator. In order to fly commercially the ventilator needs to go which means the pressure needs to go bellow 0% for the doctor’s to take it away. We can not tell how long it will be before we can take the ventilator away. She is fit to fly now if we were able to get an air evac.

    Thanks for everyone’s support ❤️

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  • Friday 17th August      17 August 2018

    Afternoon All

    Abby is looking very stable at the moment with all her levels looking relatively normal. Her temperature was a bit high at 38.0 but this is not alarming. The Tracyotomay has been done today so the nurses have started to move her arms and legs slighty. We are hoping that with these small movements and her sitting in an upright Position this will wake her up and make her more alert. She is responding slightly to our voices but not as much as we want. The long term aim is to try and get her home via a commercial flight with a nurse assistance. But the ultimate goal is to get her home ASAP with an Medical evacuation. As the medical bills even in this general hospital are racking up.

    Thank you everyone for your support ❤️

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  • Thursday 16th August     16 August 2018

    Hello again!

    Update on mum:

    Mum needs to have a Tromocide transfusion because her tromocide levels are too low and risks of bleeding when doing tracheotomy are high so need the levels to be regulated before they can do the tracheotomy so should be done by tomorrow.

    Doctor reckons she could be in a coma for quite a while.

    Mums temp rose to 39 this morning which doctor said is because her brain isn’t telling her body to regulate its temp but she is keeping all other obs stable and breathing mostly by herself.

    All is just a waiting game now.. getting the tracheotomy, physio, wait for her to wake up when she’s ready.

    Thanks for all the support from everyone I does not go unnoticed from us all 😊

    The Hartley’s ❤️

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  • Wednesday 15th August      15 August 2018

    Hey everyone!

    Update on mum!

    Dialysis has been taken away as her levels are down to normal and doctors will do another kidney function test tomorrow morning to make sure her kidneys are actually functioning. She is currently waiting for another blood transfusion.

    We have definitely noticed more eye movement today which is so great to see 😊

    Mum is breathing mostly by herself with a little pressure from the respirator.

    Tracheotomy will be done tonight or tomorrow so the doctor can start physio with her and see what kind of damage is done to her brain.

    The Hartley’s 😊

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  • Tuesday 14th August      14 August 2018

    Morning/Afternoon everyone!

    Update on mum:

    Dialysis is working wonders! Mums Creatinine levels are down from 320 to 163 and her BUN is down from 268 to 150. Judging on these results the doctor is planning to take away the dialysis tomorrow evening. Previously mum was having 4 medications to keep her blood pressure stable and doctor has reduced that to 2 medications at minimal dose. She is being sedated at night to help her sleep and get her into the normal wake/sleep pattern.

    Mum is breathing 100% of the 40% oxygen from the ventilator. Progress!

    If mum still isn’t responsive once the dialysis is finished the doctor will do the tracheotomy so he can sit her up and start physio which will help the brain function.

    All in all, kidney failure is looking better but brain damage is not out of the picture yet.

    She’s fighting so hard, we are extremely proud 😊

    The Hartley’s 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

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  • Monday 13th August      13 August 2018

    Afternoon all!

    Daily update on mum..

    Due to the dialysis for kidney failure mums Creatinine level is down to 320 (previously 500) we need this to be below 100.

    BUN is down to 268 (previously 500) we also need this to be below 100.

    Doctor decided to slightly sedate mum last night as she was keeping her eyes open, which is a good thing. Sedation is mainly to keep her calm and comfortable.

    Mum will not be able to fly for 3+ weeks as she will need physio after the tracheotomy to test and hopefully increase brain function although we are still looking at getting an air ambulance to get her home.

    Thanks for everyone’s lovely messages and donations. $75,000! Amazing! We can’t believe it, it is such a massive help 😊

    The Hartley’s x

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  • Sunday 12-08     12 August 2018
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    12/08

    Bit of a short update today.

    Mums transfer from BIMC Nusa Dua to Badung public hospital went well, nurse said she saw a few tears on the way.

    Mum still isn’t responding that well to commands. She is undergoing her first round of dialysis for the organ failure tonight so hopefully we will see a little more improvement in the morning.

    The Hartley’s ❤️

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  • Saturday 11th August     11 August 2018

    Hello all.

    Daily update on mum:

    White blood cell count is almost back down to normal so septicemia is looking like it’s going to get better. She has got down to 40% oxygen, yay! But she is sometimes only taking in 96% which is still a big improvement.

    Blood pressure and other obs are stable.

    Doctors have taken away all of mums sedation and she is not responding the way they would like her to, this can be due to kidney failure which has shown up on blood tests or because of brain damage due to shock from the septicemia.

    Doctors plans from here on is:

    Stabilize mum and then do dialysis for kidney failure, if after 7 days mum is still not responding then they will do a tracheotomy (tube in her throat) so they can take away the respirator and mobilize her to try and get her brain functioning.

    We are planning on moving her to the government hospital (an hour and a half away) if available as the fees are a little cheaper than the one we are currently in. Luckily the amazing doctor that is treating her currently also works at the government hospital so he will still be dealing with mums case.

    After the dialysis and the tracheotomy we are looking into getting an air ambulance to transfer mum back to NZ and continue her care there which we are looking at NZD$65,000-$75,000 depending on what she needs.

    Once again we would like to thank everyone for your support and donations, we can’t thank everyone enough.

    Also I have had many many questions on the situation with the insurance company. We are not naming the insurance company as of yet and we hope people can respect our decision. The reason behind them declining our claim was because they said the twisted bowel was related to a pre existing medical condition. I will not be answering any more questions regarding the insurance company as this give a little page is about raising money to help our family out with the medical costs and I hope everyone can understand and accept that.

    The Hartley’s 😊

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  • Friday 10th August      10 August 2018

    Update 10/08:

    Doctors are slowly reducing the sedative that has mum in a coma and she is fluttering her eyes much more. Last night we played mum songs that have meaning to her- mine and her song, her and dads wedding song, her and Tobys song and her and her best friends song. We have also been getting voice recordings from people at home and playing them for her which she is really acknowledging. Myself, Toby and dad all went and had a well needed rest at the hotel last night and came back to the hospital early this morning. When we arrived we gave mum a kiss and a cuddle and said morning and we got two little tears from her eyes, we have never been so happy to see tears from our mum. So that’s the personal update.

    Medical update: Mums blood pressure is stable at 130/88. Heart rate goes up and down but at this stage that is no concern and her temperature is under control. Mum is on day two of her 14 day course of antibiotics for the septicemia but unfortunately we will not know how much they are working until they test her white blood cell count on day 7.

    From myself, Toby, my dad and most importantly my mum we would like to thank everyone so much that has supported, shared and donated to this give a little page. We can’t explain how overwhelmed we are with all your generosity ❤️

    The Hartley’s 😊

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