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Help abuse victim get a new smile

$8,325 of $75,000 goal
Given by 118 generous donors in around 8 months

Help single mum and abuse victim get a new smile

Auckland

Ellie - not my real name, I featured in a stuff article last year regarding having my teeth broken after being subjected to abuse at the hands of my ex partner. After leaving the abusive relationship, I was left with life long injuries and a mouth full of broken teeth that has led to dozens of hospitalisations, septic arthritis, seizures from infections spreading to my brain, endocarditis, heart issues and have been septic a number of times. I have been turned away from several dental charities because the work is too extensive.

I am raising a child on my own with no support and lost my job due to the health complications caused by reoccurring dental infections. As each year goes by, my teeth deteriorate more and more and the cost to repair them becomes much higher. And the pain from infections is excruciating. I had to DIY my own dentures to try hide my broken teeth but they're falling apart and don't address the underlying infections that has caused so much damage to my body.

As 2025 approaches I'm facing yet another year of having to live like this and more damage being done to my body from the ongoing infections. I'm facing another Christmas where due to the very little money I do have, has to go on medical expenses from frequent doctors appointments to get more antibiotics that have become less and less effective and unable to provide my child with what a Christmas should be.

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Dental costs - including appointment, x-rays, and full restoration (implants).

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Update and looking for work!  12 March 2025

I have been able to have a few more teeth extracted and I am so beyond grateful for the amazing support I've received and the kindness shown from around New Zealand. I've never felt like I have a home or family and never felt like I belong anywhere and it has been really incredible having so many people show me that the world isn't such a bad place and there is somewhere I fit and now I feel like I have a whole family of people who are rooting for me to succeed. I'm slowly able to make more progress thanks to the amazing donors. For the past few years I've had to live on $220 a week after rent which is meant to cover food, electricity and other expenses so without the incredible donors, I wouldn't have been able to make it this far. I'm still trying to look for work and if anyone has any leads for remote jobs, please let me know! I'm trying to get back into the workforce and save to fund the rest of my dental journey. I am so excited for the day I can finally smile with pride again. For years I felt like I had been robbed of ever being able to smile again but I'm getting closer and closer to that dream becoming a reality and it wouldn't have happened without you all. I'm going to try continue sharing my story as much as possible in the hopes it could help someone else out there. I can't wait until I can finally show off my smile and I'll make sure you are all the first to see!

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Robyn
Robyn on 13 Mar 2025
Love hearing your updates!
$25
Cath
Cath on 13 Mar 2025
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$100
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Guest Donor on 20 Feb 2025
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Guest Donor on 16 Feb 2025
I hope you have enough now to get everything removed so you can have a chance and time to heal before the next steps. I am so profoundly shocked that our current health system couldn't even do that much for you.
$50
Dan
Dan on 13 Feb 2025
kia kaha
$50

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This campaign started on 3 Oct 2024 and ended on 1 Jun 2025.