I need to get a weight off my chest!
Canterbury
Kia ora, I’m Archie (he/they), a late bloomer who took a long time to figure out I was trans! I’ve had gender dysphoria for many years but not had the words or knowledge to understand what this was, let alone the education or role models to know I could actually do something about it.
For a long time I ignored these feelings, fearful of the consequences transition might have for my relationships (and safety!). However with support of my amazing friends I’ve finally embraced being me and am so much happier in myself! I now generally get gendered correctly by strangers, however have to wear a binder to be gendered correctly which is super uncomfortable - and unsafe for exercising. I work in conservation which is very physical, and tramping is my mental health outlet so this is really hard to deal with!
In the Canterbury/ West Coast DHB only 5 funded top surgeries are performed annually, and to even get on the waitlist you need ‘persistent and well-documented dysphoria’ from a psychiatrist/psychologist. Even if I had the knowledge to pursue this I wouldn’t have been able to afford to for most of my life! The other options are private surgery in NZ, which runs $20-30k, or heading overseas which is around $15k. I’m saving hard myself as well and any contributions are hugely appreciated for my quality of life!
Contributing to funding my top surgery
All funds raised will go to my top surgery - the more I raise the more likely I can get surgery in NZ which would be my preference!
Extending goal date 27 January 2025
Kia ora everyone,
Firstly, a huge thank you to everyone who has chipped in already, I appreciate you all so much, it’s a terrible climate for anything money related at the moment and I know how much it means to give it away - you have my infinite gratitude!!
Also, if $$$ isn’t something you can manage right now but you still want to help the trans community, making lots of noise about the attitudes in the current govt is very welcome - eg the proposed puberty blockers bill, etc. Please always feel free to contact me about these issues too if it’s a bit confusing without the background.
After talking to some NZ specialists I have found the standard rate for top surgery now starts at $35k here -ouch :( With the current govt’s attitude to trans people this is unlikely to improve (and if anything may get even more difficult to access).
Based on this I am now aiming to get surgery in Aus instead which is likely to cost in the ballpark of $20k. I’m determined not to do another summer of wearing a binder so that’s the main goal for 2025.
Thanks for reading and hope the start of 2025 is going well for you!
Ngā mihi nui
Archie
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