Help Our Family Find Stability Again – A Plea from the Heart

Kia ora, whānau, friends, and kind supporters,

I’m Slade, a dad to three amazing kids, seeking help in tough times. I live with PTSD, persistent depressive disorder, dissociative disorder, and OCD, caused by childhood sexual, mental, and physical abuse. For 20+ years, I hid my pain, but a head injury brought it back, stopping me from working or engaging in our community. This has worsened my mental health, straining our family’s finances and emotions.

We’re renovating our home to give my kids and partner a safe space. But my medical costs—therapy, medication, and more—have drained our budget, halting this project. I fight daily to manage symptoms and be the dad my kids need, but financial stress weighs us down.

My Story

Abuse stole my childhood, yet I’ve built a loving family. The head injury forced me to face trauma and took my ability to earn. Living with PTSD, depression, dissociation, and OCD is tough, but my kids give me hope. With your help, we can build a brighter future.

Why We Need You

Pride kept me silent, but I’m asking for my kids. Home renovations are vital for their stability, and medical bills are a hurdle. Your donation will:

Fund home renovations for a safe space.

Cover therapy and medication.

Ease financial stress to focus on healing.

Thank you for reading our story. Your kindness gives my kids a brighter future.

Ngā mihi,

Slade